ahhhhhhhhhhhh help me i'm pregnant, i just found out 4 days ago, that i'm pregnant, i got drunk and...... help me what should i do?
2007-01-28 10:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't feel ready to take on the responsibility of having a child, put it up for adoption. Don't abort it, you'll regret that the rest of your life.
Trust me.
2007-01-28 11:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take up your responsibility and raise the baby because it wasn't the baby's fault you made a mistake and an even bigger mistake that you could make would be giving it up for adoption. Why should the baby suffer. Unless you feel like the baby would have a better life without you in it then you could give it up for adoption but it is really your decision not mine or anyone else's so do what you know deep down inside is right.
2007-01-28 19:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by MeLicia T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not going to tell an abortion is wrong and tell u not to even think about it, cuz thats ur decision, .but what i will tell u is that a baby is a gift from g*d and even though the dad is a jerk, he will change his heart when he notices the judge telling him to pay you child support!!! and if you feel like u cant take care of the baby, give him/her up for adoption, but dont sign any papers that say you dont want any contact with your child. because later on in life u will regret that.
2007-01-28 19:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Donielle A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the h*ll would u sleep with some one who is a jerk in the first place, and don't tell me u didn't know before he was a jerk. don't use being drunk as an excuse, if u r old enough to drink and have sex then u r old enough to be responsible for ur own actions
2007-01-28 19:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? You are the only one who can decide how you want to handle this. There are several avenues open to you.
You need to talk to your parents after doing some research and decide together.
I take it the biological father is denying responsibility? Typical. Find out what your legal options are.
Best of luck.
Edited comment: I read other peoples' answers. How insensitive. It's too late to berate her for what's already done. She's asking for help, not abuse.
2007-01-28 19:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? can you care this this child? I can't and won't suggest an abortion because I think they're wrong but you can give it up for adoption. But don't forget, even if you don't like the guy, if you choose to keep your baby, you have to allow him to try and be a father to your baby. and either way, he has to pay you child support.
2007-01-28 19:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I agree with that girl. don't get an abortion because thats not fair to the child that you'll give birth to. If you don't want to take this responsibility put the baby up for adoption for loving parents to take care of it that can't have children of their own.
2007-01-28 19:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by marimbalover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you wanna keep da baby, keep it. If you don't want the dad in da picture, get rid of him ! I'm sure you'd prob want child support fr him tho... It IS his kid after all. Even tho my sis & cuz are single parents, they still let the fathers see their kid. It's only fair that you let him see the kid for Child Support. Besides, for your baby's sake, he/she should have a father figure of some kind. I'm sure you're kid would wanna know bout who their father is.
2007-01-28 19:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the dad is a complete jerk then take care of the baby yourself ask your family for support
2007-01-28 19:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by .:Zany:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew he was a jerk when you gave him your stuff, now just live with it. That has nothing to do with a child, love the baby he's only a baby
2007-01-28 19:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋