ok, i like him ALOT! not sure if he likes me back. what do u guys do when u like a girl. like how do u act around them, how do u flirt, do u ignore us to play hard to get??!? what do u do! try to think about what a middlschooler would do
2007-01-28 10:46:18 · 18 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT SAY I'M TOO YOUNG CUZ I'M NOT! THAT NOT GONNA HELP AT ALL, SO U MITE AS WELL JUST LEAVE THIS PAGE! I NEED REAL ANSWERS, ONES THAT ARE GONNA HELP, NOT ONE SAYING OMG SHUT UP AND SUCK IT UP UR TOO YOUNG!
2007-01-28 10:47:21 · update #1
You've asked a good question here ,,, It rates a star with me and I don't think you are too young at all ,,,, You're at the same age as everyone else that starts wondering about the very same things ,,,, The age you are at right now is when most people start thinking about relationships and dating and such things as that ,,,, Pay no attention to the smart Alick answers you might get ,,,, People that are like that aren't worth listening to anyway ,,,, As for this fellow you like ,,,, I wouldn't worry about trying to flirt ,,,, Just be yourself ,,,, Be down to earth and don't try to be someone you aren't ,,,, To get him to notice you all you have to do is strike up a conversation or conversations with him and talk about him ,,,, Ask him any questions you wonder about concerning him or talk about things that interest him ,,,, Try to present yourself as just a friend at first ,,,, Talk to him as much as you can and maybe in later conversations the chance might present it's self for you to express your feelings towards him ,,,, He's either going to accept you or he isn't ,,,, You have no control over that ,,,, Young people are smart though if they play the field so to speak ,,,, Don't be so ready to tie your self down to just one person so early ,,,, Try to get as wide a range of acquaintances as you can while you are your young ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so to speak so find out who and what's out there first ,,,, This will help you to make a wiser decision as to who you choose when you are ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,, You have to remember that young guys and older ones to for that matter ,,,, haven't got the maturity to understand what the word commitment means or entails ,,,, And who knows ,,,, getting yourself tied down in a relationship too early just might cause you to miss meeting that Mr Right person ,,,, For right now though I think the best thing you can do is just follow my suggestions about being yourself and what not ,,,, Don't get in a rush about anything and always remember that your body is your own and no one elses ,,,, If a situation should present it's self that makes you feel uncomfortable or you feel is wrong then put a stop to it immediately ,,,, At this point in your life I think it would be a good idea for you to sit down with a piece of paper and make certain rules about what you should and should not do when you are out on a date or any other time for that matter and stick to them,,,,Usually girls that have these rules gain allot more respect not only from boys but everyone else too ,,,, than the ones that don't ,,,, Have your mother help you with this ,,,, She's not going to tell you anything that's not good or right for you ,,,, Once you have these rules and do's and don'ts figured out then follow them for the rest of your life ,,,, Hope things go the way you'd like ,,,, Give my suggestions some thought ,,,, I don't think you'll be sorry ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,,
2007-01-28 12:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most troubling part in the beginning stage, no mater what the age, is how to show your interest. If you are direct and tell them, you appear to be too hungry. There is this little 'power' the other gains by being the one approached. Just don't look too hungry. Let him know by a smile, and look straight in his eyes. Don't ignore or act tough or 'better than him. Often that becomes just a game and one will 'quit' the game after they get their 'prize'
Just be you. If you know some of his friends, ask a couple questions about him, and he will for SURE know you are inquiring about him. Don't act like someone you are not, because as time goes by, and the real you comes out, good or bad, he'll know you put on an act up front. You want him to like you for who YOU are, not for someone you are not.
2007-01-28 11:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by degroove 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boys at that age are a bit hard to read. If I liked a girl and I wanted an oppourtunity to see if she liked me too I wish that she would have invite me to a birthday party, skating or a social event and just make small talk and if he has a big smile and you two seem to talk alot. I think he likes you, if you talk to him and he seems distant or is quiet he either does not like you that much or is scared to say so. In either case, leave the ball in his court and let him make the next move.
2007-01-28 10:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Magnus01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alright i depends upon the guy some chose to ignore u
some act differnt with u then with their friends
some play hard to get
the tough guys are hard to get
the smart guys mostlylikey ignoru u
in between they act differnt around u than with thier friends and sometimes ignor u
2007-01-28 10:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by RANDOM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey grl ive been thro themiddle school n i know wats in u ryt nao...
we ppl just try to show some attitude towards other gls n a bit f intrest in the grl we like..
like ignoring him wont fetch u any thing just make him know this thro ne of ur n his good frend ...
let him realise that he is also getting some intrest in you..
all the best grl
ull get him
2007-01-28 10:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by ksnap2010 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 05:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they stare, they look @ u often & look away when u catch them looking, when you're around anywhere that they are, the get loud & show off w/ their friends...just doing silly things to get your attention. they may also be really mean to you for no apparent reason.even if you havent said anything to them or started any trouble w/ them. (this is when u dont pay enough attention to them).someguys will just simply be nice to you & try to make u laugh, but other guys dont want to do it like that so they'd rather be mean b/c they dont know how to express their feelings.
2007-01-28 10:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most young respectable guys are shy...so it may seem to the girl that he does not like her but thats not true.
I agree with you about the age thing..no one should be hateful when it comes to that...as long as the person makes wise choices and keeps faith.
2007-01-28 10:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I act like myself.. i play hard to get.. i also, intend to play with the girls emotions, to see if she does the same thing back.. because it helps me see if she cares.. probably make fun of you.. tease you, laugh at you.. he would be shy to come to you, and speak to you... maturity is not there yet...
2007-01-28 10:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by LeonBasin 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
guys dont play hard to get in the same way chiks do, if hes avoiding u its probz cos hes shy. be more outgoing but relaxed towards him nd ul really c if he likes u or not
2007-01-28 10:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋