They both like me and I like them
2007-01-28 10:44:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with both of them...dating doesn't mean you have to chose one right away. Just be sure they both know you are seeing other people and they are welcome to also. When you figure out which one you like more then let them know that also.
2007-01-28 10:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you choosing them for? A husband? Boyfriend? Sex?
Have you been dating both of them? If not, why not go out on a few dates with them. See which you like better, who treats you with more respect?
Get to know them better. If either shows jealousy or controlling behavior, I would stay away from that one, but a lot of women are attracted to jealous, controlling and abusive men.
2007-01-28 10:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one cal tell you who to be with. If it were me, I would sit down and weigh the options. Ask yourself questions like, Which guy is going to treat me better?, Which guys is going to make me laugh?, Which guy is going to be there for me no matter what happens? But in all honesty, if you really think about it long and hard, you want one of the guys more than the other already. I hope you pick the right one. Goodluck!
2007-01-28 10:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just enjoy the platonic friendships of both guys until you can decide which one you want to become seriously involved with? Take your time and enjoy your life because you're not obligated to rush into anything with either of them.
2007-01-28 10:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and here we have the problem of morality - i mean, a mom can love both her kids the same, but these moral hardheads (who i'd be willing to bet don't practice what they preach) will tell you that you have to choose. why? why not entertain both of their pursuits, and wait for one to become established as a front runner - - -
or better yet, keep going with both of them for long enough that they get the idea that you are niether one of their's property and yet are capable of being loved.
2007-01-28 10:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a list of pros and cons about each one. It might help you to decide or think about what it would be like without each one of them in your life. If the thought of not seeing one of them ever again is heart wrenching, he is the one for you.
2007-01-28 10:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by marla d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one that's cuter. if you like both and both like you, pick the better looking one. i know that this sounds horrible, but it really isn't. looks aren't everything, but for most people, it's the first thing. :)
2007-01-28 11:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by ♥2cute4u♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to choose? If you don't know that you definitly want to be with one of them over the other, why do you have to be with one or the other?
2007-01-28 10:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Gerbil boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assign one guy heads, one guy tails, and flip a coin. While it's in the air, you'll already know in your heart which side you want it to come down on.
That's the guy you go for.
2007-01-28 10:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them both but marry neither
2007-01-28 10:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋