I saw in the movies that they always have sex before marriage, and even at the first day they met. It's really common almost all the love movies!! Is that also happen in the real world? Everybody have sex before get married?
2007-01-28 10:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by Ruyi L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm...well, yes pretty much. (sex before marriage)
That is a personal decision though.
People who have sex the day they meet however, usually do not get a happily ever after. Once they actually get to know the person they slept with, it becomes disgust and regret. People who do that are usually looking for the attention more than a true connection with another person.
I cannot say anything against sex before marriage for personal reasons. People have waited, only to get married too quickly and divorced soon after.
Both are big decisions that require a lot of consideration.
2007-01-28 10:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll not always. it seams that the movies has made us believe that this is how the real world works. But in some cases the couples who believe in makeing a lasting relationship work. They hold themselves for marriage and do not know each other sexually until the day of there wedding. Which is how it worked for years and years in this world.
So yes and no.
2007-01-28 18:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people do have sex before they marry. But they do not usually do it the first day they meet :-)
Sex complicates relationships. It is wise to wait until you know a person before having sex with them. When you have sex with a person you are risking catching many nasty sexually transmitted diseases, heart break and pregnancy. Sex is a way to deepen and enhance a stable, committed relationship. It is not something to be taken lightly.
Don't believe everything you see in movies :-)
2007-01-28 18:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody has sex before they marry... and quite frankly when they do it usually either makes the relationship very complicated, skrews it up, or if they might get married and turn out okay.
Works best if you wait to have sex untill after you marry
2007-01-28 18:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it happens in real life too but it shouldn't be that way.I think people should only have sex if they are married or if they really love each other.Each time you have sex with a person,you both give a peice of yourselves.
2007-01-28 18:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does happen all the time your thinking olod fashion most all people have sex before marriage
2007-01-28 18:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by baby g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do. But it's far better to wait until your honeymoon night.
2007-01-28 18:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No WAY! They just try 2 play up the movies with that stuff. Movies are fictional. Life is REAL! dont copy the movies if thats wat ur thinkin of doin.
2007-01-28 18:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Movies are not real.
Not everybody is that careless.
Most people respect themselves.
2007-01-28 18:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by SEG48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not everyone --- its a personal choice --- and as you get older it becomes more about enjoyment than what society may think
2007-01-28 18:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋