Dreams of Deseased husband running away from me?

Question

I use to be so depressed and getting anxiety attacks. But as of lately its been about one month and 8 days already since his death and I finally feel that I have healed. I don't cry everyday anymore and I dont get anxiety attacks anymore. But I have been getting dreams of him everynight and everytime I dream of him he is running away from me. And its like a mission for me cuz I keep running after him and trying to get next to him in my dream. It'll be a moment when both are holding each other and I feel so peaceful like finally i am at peace and then all of a sudden he is trying to avoid me. It is weird and it hurts. I am doin better in reality as far as I am not depressed over him anymore but moving on with my life. I still miss him and love him alot. But I am learning to deal being by myself now and it getting better. I have no other choice but to do what I am doing. But why do he keep coming to me like nothing is wrong then he runs away from me and I have to chase him?It reallyhurts

i am done. I don't even think of me having a husband anymore. But as I am a single women and living my life like when I was single. I'm not dating or anything. But living my life and taking care of resposnibilites. I hate getting dreams of him. Becuz he is dead and gone. So why can't he stop coming into my dreams. I kno he is gone. But in my dreams I forget he is dead and for some reason I keep chasing after him,,, what is wrong? He is dead why I can't remember he is dead in my dreams and just let him run away if he wants. I kno i love him still thats why I am chasing after him. But its not a nice dream it hurts me everytime I wake up thinking he is still here

Answer 1

I am sorry. My mother passed away last March and I still have things that I have to deal with daily in my heart and mind. All I can say is that as time goes by your days and nights will change. It sounds that maybe deep inside still, you may have felt abandoned by him or maybe you feel that you didn't do enough for him. These are normal things to feel when someone close dies. The hurt and the pain will pass as time heals.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I agree with your other answer.....you still love him, and he stays in the back of your mind. I do feel that these dreams will eventually cease. Just take one day at a time.......you know your hubby in real life would have never run away from you....so just don't worry about those dreams....if you have one.......when you wake up...just throw the thought out of your mind. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

maybe in the back of your mind, you desperatly want him here, and cant let go. and maybe in your dreams, your trying to get him back... yet when you wake up, you realize that it's not going to happen.

Answer 4

your dream expresses a feeling of loneliness, of being unloved, uncared for