ex boyfriens was the one who broke up with me b/c he was not ready for a serious relationship & i was way to clingy.. but as all of us girls do we love our boyfriend & show them either by giving them alot of attention and affection endless phone calls.. well my question he broke up with me & he choices to flirt with other girls infront of me to get me jelous which i dont understand why is he even bothering, and when my male friends talk to me he moves in closer an checks them out & gets his male friends 2 look & see what i am doing why is he still doing that? wouldnt he be over it it's been a year & a bit know since we were together.. & he was one one who said i am focusing on my work, job at the moment! why is he sending me mixed messages is it to tell me he still has feeling? what should i do...? ignore it flirt with my male friends in front of him as well?
2007-01-28 10:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's either confused, or scared. He wants to show you off, to say, look at her, isn't she hot, and she's mine. And to look at other girls, it could be proving his controll. Or to test your security in yourself. Either way he means it, take controll of yourself. Dont let him bring you down by it, but rather make you stronger to be able to say, "It doesnt bother me, cuz I know what I am and what I'm worth." A real man, would neither test or disrespect you. It only shows to be HIS own insecurity in himself.
2007-01-28 10:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by CARISSA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him the mixed messages is a sign that he made a huge mistake when he broke up with you and you just need to ignore him because he is being very childish and him and his friends need to get straight in there heads that you and your ex aren't together anymore. If he wanted to be a man he would have told you how he felt by now.
2007-01-28 18:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by MeLicia T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is acting very silly. i dont know why he is playing those games, but why did he end it w/ u espescially if he knew he wouldnt be able to handle it? it really sounds like he likes you & is way jealous by these other guys. i just dont get why he broke it off. does he want u to start begging or something? well dont ever beg him. this is your time to show him that he lost a good thing. u better do it & do it well...then maybe he'll come back beggin! jmo.good luck.
2007-01-28 18:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.Just be a snob to him.Whats a couple if the girls not clingy??When your talking and you notice hes looking say "Hi..can i help you?".But say this with confidence.Also why dont you primp yourself out to get him super jelous?
2007-01-28 18:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he still likes you obviously and is probably showing you off to his friends like "i went out with her" to impress them...just tell him to stop being so immature and get over it already. the same thing is happening to me lol
2007-01-28 18:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋