I sit on here and read people's problems, especially ther mental health problems, and i feel really happy. It's the only time i'm ever happy, when i hear about other's sadness. Does this make me evil even though I post answers and try and help them and i dont want them to be sad?
2007-01-28 10:33:55 · 12 answers · asked by Lu 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No, of course not. It probably makes you feel like you're understood and that you're not all alone in the world and that there are others who are sad too.
Also, it could make you feel happy to help them and give them advice, advice that you wish someone would give to you. It sometimes makes people feel good that they're helping people who are stuck in the same rut they are~
2007-01-28 10:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by INCUBUS 「of」 Arcadia~~♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a lot of people think things are funny when in reality they're not. I'll give you a fine example of that.
1. I'm laughing when bad weather is occuring, although I know it's nothing to be happy about.
2. Newscasters sometimes laugh at things that happen to folks in the news, you just may not catch it.
Basically, we're human, we do get happy about petty stuff that's meant to be sad.
2007-01-28 19:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear if this is the only thing that truly makes you feel happy, I think you should throw yourself in to psychology. You can listen to people cry about their miseries all day long and get well paid for it to boot. Imagine how ecstatic a life you could lead while helping others. I think you'd make a wonderful psychologist because you enjoy helping them and do not enjoy their sadness. :)
2007-01-28 18:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by G V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, no it isn't wrong, cause you aren't wishing unhappiness upon. Sometimes it takes seeing or hearing other peoples problems to realize yours might not be that bad. It's just a human nature things. Take Care.
2007-01-28 18:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its almost the same as being sad to hear about other peoples successes.
2007-01-28 18:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it helps you feel like you're not alone. Everyone has problems. I don't think you're evil, but you are mixed up. You may be depressed. See your doctor.
2007-01-28 18:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jus happy that there problems arent your problems and that makes you feel better about yourself
and jus fell bad for them and want to help them
2007-01-28 18:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by jizzywizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all relative. You're complaining about your ugly shoes until you see a man with no legs.
2007-01-28 18:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never complain. No one listens to you when you complain. The ones that do listen to you are the ones that want to hear you complain to begin with.
2007-01-28 18:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you'd make a great shrink!!!
2007-01-28 18:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋