i talk loud how do i tone it down??

Question

see when ever i talk it is loud and when i'm telling a secret every one around can hear. it is like i can't even whisper. how do i talk softer?

Answer 1

Hearing - also sensitize yourself to it. Keep lowering the other sounds around you and try to balance what you hear that way.
Yes, I am aware that we hear ourselves differently that others do so if that does not help try a small tape-recorder to make yourself aware of the contrast that is not generated from within.

Answer 2

This may sound funny ,but have you had your hearing checked? it's possible you may be over compensating for wax build-up or some other issue. Get it checked out.