So, this was my first girlfriend and it wasn't working out that well as it got into like the 6-month range, but I was determined to try and express feelings with each other and make it work I guess. Anyway, my gf had the gawl to block me from myspace and not even break up with me, even thought that's what she wanted and I didn't really want to break up, but she wasn't working at it, and so after about 2 weeks of all that, I broke up with her and I've had it. Everybody else likes me and she's the first person in my entire life that's insulted me and actually meant it. What should I do? I thought I was a nice, ethical, generous guy and I'm not trying to brag. Oh yeah, the thing that got to me was once I got to really start knowing her, there was a large difference in values and we started to disagree at that point.
2007-01-28 10:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Okay... I meant someone close to me insulting me and if you're only going to judge me, then please, please don't answer.
2007-01-28 10:15:23 · update #1
Everyone thinks that they are a nice, ethical, generous guy.
Your comments sound more like you are very judgmental with the talk about the large difference in values.
Maybe in the future you should try to be more tolerant of the values of others.
love and blessings Don
2007-01-28 10:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not totally sure what you're asking. What should you do about what? Are you asking if you should feel bad about the break-up?
ETA - What should you do about someone close to you insulting you? Pretty much nothing at all. You can't *stop* someone from insulting you, no matter how much you might wish him to do so. Freedom of speech and all that. (Unless this actually gets into a slander issue - but then you'd be asking your question in the completely wrong forum). You could try to find it in yourself to forgive any cruel words flung your way and say a prayer for the person doing the slinging, but that's it. And, I'm still not certain what you thought God was leading you to do.
2007-01-28 18:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by happyhomeschooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, pray for her and move on.
the truth of a relationship is we always can do better.
my grandfather would always tell me there are 3 side to every story... 3 i asked? with wisdom and understanding he said yes my boy His, Hers and the truth.
if you really want to make the best of this situation, forget about blame. i guarantee you there's plenty to go around. humble yourself before God and ask Him to reveal to you how you could have redeemed the relationship or any given situation.
the hard thing to do is look at ourselves and see where we missed it. since the garden men & women have been playing the blame game. in this way you will learn and grow and be better prepared for the next relationship you get into.
don't forget to seek Godbefore you hookup with another young lady. if you wait for the right one you will avoid so many problems. and you will truly have a help mate. may the Holy Spirit guide and keep you.
2007-01-28 18:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by lewbiv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let this bother you so much. If there's a difference in the way she presented herself when you first met her, and now she's showing her true self, I believe that shows dishonesty on her part. If you value honesty, think about that.
2007-01-28 18:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by lost and found 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant always beleive everyone will like you
from the sounds of it youre a great guy but you should understand...you need more then love to be with someone...
you have differences....if theyre big enought o break upt hen thats how it was supposed to be...wether god lead you to it or not
2007-01-28 18:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by elnrith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
2007-01-28 18:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh boy don't tell me you guys broke up because of religious differences was that the reason you guys broke up if so that's sad i mean it's just religion if you guys really liked eachother then this should be no problem at all oh well i'm sorry for your situation
2007-01-28 18:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you not feel a little self centred to think that the creator of the universe cares about your pathetic love life?
There is a word for it friend. its called hutzpah.
I'm starting to understand why you got dumped.
2007-01-28 18:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Time is the great healer.
Just relax.
Wayne Murray
2007-01-28 18:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she's well rid of an idiot like you.
Oh, and reported. This has nothing to do with R&S...
2007-01-28 18:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Yoda Greene 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋