there is this popular boy known as the "hottest" boyy in school. my bffs have crushes on him and asks me, "you have to admit he is so cutee!" and i said ok w/e but he is not myy type...but wen ever i walk by him, i want him to NOTICE mee i no i dont have feelings for him but i m not sure. maybe i wanna be noticed by him just to be popular! but i m alreadyy i hangg out with the grls and im friends with the most popular and rich kids... so i dont no if i like him or i just want to be popular... but the thing is i m not one of those ppl who always wants to be the queen.. and nor is he myy type.. HELP! and yess this is a real storyy for those ppl who think i m beinngg way to dramaticc! =[
2007-01-28 09:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its just because he's the hottest and the best, and if he notices you that makes you the hottest and the best also, and even though most people deny it, that's what almost everyone wants, especially in junior high.
2007-01-28 09:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by simply.beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care so much what people think about you? popularity will not get you through this life, when i was in junior high, i really did not give a crap if i was popular or not, i had my close friends and family, thats all i needed. you should be defined for your actions, and not who you hang out with. it is okay to recognize beauty in people, but if you dont see a future, just dont act on it. if you want to date somebody, date them because you like him, not because he is popular.
2007-01-28 18:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're being way too dramatic.
Its Jr. High school. You'll live through it, I swear. You probably fall right into the "blonde" girl stereotype, so I'm not even going to waste my breath.
2007-01-28 17:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i think u like him and ur not tryin to make urself fell bad if u get rejected....so think real good and admit that u like him to urself if u really do..... i think guys really like girls when they arent too popular or flaunty with their wealth - i think its more genuine and may last longer. so in moments when u get with him alone, show him ur intellectual side and not the side that he expects from a popular girl who acts like the rest. just be confident and real.
2007-01-28 19:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by lustmord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happens to me sometimes. i think it is just a desire to be noticed by all even if we dont really like them....its really weird yea i know
2007-01-28 17:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by PhiLLyGurL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont like him u dont need to get involved with him. it probably wont lead to good things if u force it on yourself
2007-01-28 17:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by NYRNYM38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just want him to like you so other girls can be like "o he likes her. what does she have that i dont."
2007-01-28 17:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*cough* immature attention whore *cough*
2007-01-28 17:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jhaycen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋