I want to get a bra but i don't want to ask my mom, what should I do?

Question

I really need a padded bra but I don't want to ask my mom, what should I do? And if anyone can find a cute bra, 32-34 cup, then please include it so I can have a look. Thanks for answering the question, it will help alot.

Answer 1

just talk to her about it. im sure she'll get you one.

Answer 2

I mean, really, how old are you? If you need a bra don't you think your mother would know? Go down to Wal Mart and ask a clerk in woman's clothing to help you pick one out. You have money of your own, right? If not you are probably too young. Just because all the other girls your age wear a bra doesn't mean you should. Talk to your mother about it. What is she going to do? Bite your head off?

Answer 3

You can go to the store and buy a bra yourself, but it isn't like your mom isn't gonna notice the difference when you wear it anyway. She will, no matter what you are wearing. She can help you pick out the right kind to start with. You need one that not only is cute, but functional and comfy. She will be delighted if you ask her. Believe me. She has been there at your age too.
Don't be ashamed. If you can't ask your mom, get a friend to help, but I would ask mom first. She will be thrilled I'm sure.

Answer 4

First of all it has been a time honored tradition for mom and daughter to pick out her little girls first bra, however times have changed and my oldest did not ask me to help her get her first bra. Maybe an older close female friend or an aunt, however do keep this in mind; you mom's feelings could get hurt here.

Answer 5

You need to talk to your mom about it. I'm sure she will buy you one. I'm sure she realizes that when a girl reaches a certain age - she needs a bra. When you go shopping, ask for a bra fitting. Try different bras on to get the perfect one for you! Go to victoriasecret.com They have tons of bras in lots of different styles.

Answer 6

Don't be afraid to ask your mom about things like this. Remember she was your age too once and probably was feeling the same thing that you are. getting your first bra (I'm assuming) is something that you'll remember for a long time. go to the mall and have a look around at different stores try them on, they all fit different. Then go to your mom and tell her that you've found one that you like and you'd like to get it.

Answer 7

Just ask her or mention a friend buying one as a starter to the conversation. Mom's are totally understanding about wanting to fit in or have bras or whatever...they've been there and done that ;)

Answer 8

ask your mom she'll understand.. and research your bras first .. 32-34 is not the cup size.. that is your ribcage size.. if your still uncomfortable talking to your mom just go to victoria's secret and talk to the saleswoman.. they all are trained on how to size bras and will help you out

Answer 9

She knows your growing up into a young lady so I dont see whats wrong with just telling your mom that you need a bra. She will understand.

Answer 10

Not sure why you don't want to ask your mom - she'd be a good choice for a question like that...

If you really can't talk to her - go to any store that sells womens/girls clothing - should find what you want in the lingerie section.

Nothing to be embarrassed about - go with girlfriends if you're nervous.

-dh

Answer 11

honey, if u are a size 32-34, then u need to tell your mom. every girl does that, so don't be embarrassed about it, it is just life, and I'm sure your mom went through the same thing, its all ok, your mom is a girl, so don't be afraid to tell her anything!to tell u the truth, i loved going shoping with my mom for girl stuff! its just a girl thing!