I have no idea what to do. My parents and brothers and other family members tell me that I am pretty. But when a boy sees me it's like all they do is run and hide. I feel really bad. All of my friends have boyfriends. Why can't I just get one?
2007-01-28 09:27:37 · 24 answers · asked by Jilli D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart, a real man would only want to see confidence & self-esteem in a female. believe in yourself, be proud of who you are, keep them running to you for your inner beauty, don't chase after them, that will make them think you're easy even though you're not. & what's so bad about being single? freedom? no broken hearts? drama-free life? whoo. honey you've got a lot to be happy about & your family to love. your future to look forward to. boys are just seasonings that you add to your delicious, well-cooked food
2007-01-28 17:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but beauty does come from with in, the other is only skin deep.
Here is an idea, no matter how many of your family members or friends, tell you, you're pretty, unless you your self can see and feel this, nothing happens.
Why? We project our inners out wards, like, if you're confident, it will show, if you're sad, the same happens etc.... so, what to do?
Go have a Make over by some reputable person, let them bring out what they believe are you're best assets, take a picture with you're new looks and look at this photo often and say, I'm pretty, over and over. A good thing to do also is, stand a front of a mirror on a daily base, saying the same thing and in time you'll come to believe it. BELIEVE IT, IT WORKS!!
It's called, self physicality.
2007-01-28 09:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to do make up and buy clothes.. this isnt rocket science... (do it right and the guy will be happy to pay for the make up and the clothes even.. LOL thats what marriage is really all about hehehe)
Any one tells you looks arent important is lying (yes I said it yer a fracking LIAR!!!).. thats the first thing we see.. it makes an impression.. it isnt everything.. but lemme tell ya it counts.. all that other stuff comes later.. the visual is the first.. Now on the looks aint everything.. TRUE.. You can look great but be a total obnoxious *****... that will work initially.. but it wont work very long.. you gotta find the balance... right make up and clothes.. just about anyone can look decent or good (I'm living proof) if you dont wanna make the effort.. then quit complaining.. Guys in particular are VERY visually oriented (Girls arent much better) gotta get that foot in the door.. then you can go from there..
If you cant do mak up or dress right.. get a girl friend to help you out.. or better yet a gay male friend.. you'll be smokin in no time..
yeah I'm just that damn good.. no matter what you look like now i could make you noticed in any room anytime, anywhere.. its not that hard really... just make up and clothing style... been proven ove and over again.. ask my Ex wife.. a "nothing" when i met her.. 3 mos later.. hotter than hell in any venue..
I have a little bit of knowledge in this.. (Oh ya'll aint gonna wana hear this) I can get pretty much any girl OR boy I want... (OK I'm Bi shoot me.. sheesh) the initial visual is the main hook.. the rest isnt worth a **** if you dont have the visual.. I dont care what yer sex pref is.. if you cant grab the interest initially yer going no where with the rest of it.. looks count.. sorry.. but they do... the rest is just gravey... girl or boy...
ADDENDUM: BTW if you dont think you are pretty enuff for me (generic) guess what?? You arent... and I'll believe you.. you know you way better than I do... who am I to contradict you? After all I make Tom Cruise look like a frackin hobbit on my bad days..
2007-01-28 09:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy runs and hides it does not mean that you are not pretty. When I was a little boy I was scared of pretty girls. Just be friendly and open with your friends. Read a few books for girls your age. I would recommend "The Fascinating Girl" by Helen Andelin.
2007-01-28 09:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is going to sugarcoat this response, but to be blunt, some people just aren't that attractive by themselves. Clothes and makeup will help--but only to a point. I don't know what you look like, though.That said...
Some men will find you more attractive than others. You may not be able to find a man you find extremely attractive, but you will be able to find one. Everyone has many reasonable matches out there, somewhere. Get out and talk to people, get to know people. Especially if you're young--be patient. I know it seems like everyone has someone, however, it's never too late. I'm talking from experience.
2007-01-28 09:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by aparadoxsimple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jilli, I had the same problem. Guys are just retarded and the world has convinced guys that if a girl isn't a supermodel, she's ugly. That's total bullshit and we all know it. You just have to hang on. You will find a guy. I did and I'm like, the frigging ugly duckling! You will find a guy, so hang on, love will find you. And just ask your friends if they can kindly not talk about guys in front of u if it bothers u.
2007-01-28 09:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that first offf you need to have faith in yourself, ecause in the first 5 seconds that pople meet you they can tell if you belive in yourself or not by the way that you stand y=or even look at them and also I think that just because all of your friends have boyfriends that you do not need one. If you are oin school right now then I think that you need to focus on whats at hand not the future because boys last for weeks and education lasts for ever
2007-01-28 09:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky STUFFY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not about looks alone. You also have to be a nice person.
Get some advice on clothes and makeup from a friend, but don't change the way you are. You'll meet somebody nice sooner or later.
2007-01-28 09:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you are a little ugly. Guys will forgive that if you have a nice body. If you are fat and pretty, that is worse, most guys just don't look at fat chicks.
Make sure you are in shape and go where the quality guys are. BE APPROACHABLE! That is all you have to do. You can get a great guy.
It is so incredibly easy for girls.
2007-01-28 09:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait, in time you'll find your Prince Charming! But first you need to have self-confidence in who you are. If you are always negative about yourself, no guy will want to date you. You need to feel beautiful inside and out. And always remember that you have someone up above watching over you. You're always loved.
2007-01-28 09:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋