i dont get along with my sister and we r both college student. sometime when i get tired of arguing with her, i just become quiet and let her do all the yakking bcus i know the arguing will not go anywhere. i am older than her, but i feel that arguing for a nonsense stuffs is a waste of my time so i dont really care. however, she is the type who like to prove that she is right so she keep on going on and on with name calling while i am being quiet and go on doing my things. as an exmple, we argue over my laptop usage. it is my laptop and i have the right to take it with me, but she insist that i should share it with her and leave it at home for her to do her homework, and when i say no she name call me and yakidy yak she go. i have alway fight with her since little but as we got older we are more of an enemy than sister.
2007-01-28 09:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You 2 spend way too much time together. You need to spend some time apart. In fact, I think you should move out and get your own apartment or dorm. If you are a college student, you are an adult, so you can live on your own.
Otherwise, just try to spend time away from her. Stay out of the house for awhile and do your own thing. Maybe you can be nice and let her borrow your laptop occassionally. Also, stand up to her. Don't be quiet! Being quiet doesn't help! Just tell her she needs to respect you. if she starts yelling, leave the house.
2007-01-28 09:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you both live at home. If your college has a dorm you should try to move on campus. You can also suggest to your parents that they buy her computer for her use. Also I suggest you record your sister arguing at you and play it for your parents, maybe they will be able to stop her fussing.
2007-01-28 09:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt wanna fight with you all the time, i think she wants you to pray attention. thats it. does she have any friends? maybe she s lonely. let her see the outside world, have relationships with people other than you. sooner or later she ll grow up and u too. this is ridiculous. u got a wonderful sis, its more important to have a peaceful, full ov love relationship with her than fightin over machines!! it s family that cares about us not wires and lamps.
2007-01-28 09:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by abderrahman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt let her use your laptop at all tell her to get her own.I agree with u about arguing its a waste of time an energy.
2007-01-28 11:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on ignoring her. She sounds very immature. Hopefully she'll grow up soon.
2007-01-28 09:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her some people grow older, but they don't grow up.
2007-01-28 09:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋