We been together for 6 years well it would have been on Valentines day.
She came to me and said:
"I don't want to be together anymore. I know i love you and like you as much as i always did but i am not happy when i am with you anymore. I want to come over your house but once i walk in the door i am unhappy. I feel bad when i am there and i don't know why. I don't know what i want but right now i want to be left alone.
I don't know what is making me feel this way but it wont go away i always have it in my mind. I want to marry you one day but not now. I am probably making a huge mistake but i don't know....I feel your being fake when you nice to me b/c you were never that way. All i used to care about was making you happy but now i don't care either way...Hopefully you will take me back when i realize what i have done."
She was being brutally honest. I told her not to call or try to contact me. She said she wants to miss me but doesn't want to be together any more.
2007-01-28 09:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no other guy is involved so don't suggest it.
2007-01-28 09:03:26 · update #1
My suggestion is to let her have her space to determine things on her own. If she truly does love you she will come back to you. If she doesn't then you are better off without her.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-28 09:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Deede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girl of 1year 8 moths this last 24th broke up over stupid stuff and i miss her so bad she says she dont love me anymore and now she is with a 26 yr old and she is 17 we broke up a week ago she said she loved me for a few days now she says she dont and that she has feelings for this old guy sry i cant help with anything besides the fact im in your shoes at the moment she wont even let me see her last time i went over their i got beat up by him and got put in jail im told if i go back ill be areasted again sry bro i feel you
2007-01-28 17:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by streetdestroyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just broke up w/my bf of 6 months. I know it's a lot different, but you have to re-adjust your thoughts. Time is the cure. Spend time with good friends, go to church, whatever gets you the most content and gets your mind of the girl. Staying friends with her will make it easy cuz u r easing of the relationship
2007-01-28 17:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by cookie789123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is depressed and odiously confused. Give her time.
Go back and think how the relationship was. Maybe there was something that set her off without you knowing.
2007-01-28 17:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just be glad she was honest with you
I just got out of 5year relationship with now my ex
and for weeks prior to that she was mentally torturing me...no not by being rude or mean....the other torture....cold, uneffectionate, not caring, avoiding you, when I tried to snuggle up to her in bed she would push me away....I wish she was honest with me
sometimes then worse truth hurts less than fake reality
2007-01-28 17:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question..She was very honest and she said she is done with you..Move on you have no future with her.
2007-01-28 17:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋