my past girlfriend thought she could do anything regardless of what i thought...she didnt stay long.
my new girlfriend reminds me of the last one constantly!
I can't decide to dump and run or wait and see because they both figured that talking to me about OTHER, HOT men... *thanks ladies, love you too* and woder why I'm angry afterwards
so innocent and cute they think they are
2007-01-28 08:53:42 · 17 answers · asked by Freezer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So tell me Freezer....what do you think of Angelina Jolie? Or perhaps Hillary Duff? (unsure of your age)
Getting my point? Men do the same thing. Just because we are in a realtionship does not mean we are dead and can not appreciate the body of another human being. The "look but don't touch" philsophy applies here.
2007-01-28 09:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Deede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, doing things that are disrespectful or mean to you is one thing, but commenting that Brad Pitt is hot is entirely a different thing all together. If you are secure within yourself, you'll realize that it's perfectly normal for your g/f to think someone is hot, & maybe even to tell you so, just as you think "pam anderson is hot" or whomever, (and i'm sure when walking thru the mall you have been guilty more than once of seeing a girl & thinking she's hot...) the difference is that you didn't share your opinion with your g/f....Also, you gotta stop comparing one girl to the next, b/c given enuff time & putting enuff creative thought into it, you can find a way to link an apple to an orange...making them more alike in your own mind than they truly are.
Some girls just have no cooth, no class, & no self respect, & if they have no self respect they can't have any respect for anyone else. It's best to avoid such girls all together..(these are usually the ones that think they are so cute & innocent & walk all over everyone, guys & girls alike, b/c they think the world owes them something.) * *& i agree it does owe 'em something, a good swift kick in the butt!
2007-01-28 17:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by rjsluvbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to point out other hot guys to remind you that you are not the only fish in the sea yet they still want you, because there's something special about you..also it's a good way to get into some angry sex.
2007-01-28 17:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that is weird.. lol.. girls talking about other hot men.. i think i do that while my boyfriend's around.. woops, but i always turn around and tell him that he's 100 times more handsome and i love him, do any of your girlfriends do that? a reason why they might do that is to make you jealous, which apparently is working... also, instead of only judging girls like that, don't you ever think about a really hot girl? it doesn't mean you like her more than ur gf, it's just that u find her attractive, or nice, or w/e... i think you should talk to your current gf and ask her what's going on, tell her it bothers u when she talks about other guys,etc. a real relationship should always be truthful
2007-01-28 17:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Federer's lova<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think there is anything wrong with saying celebrities are hot and things of that sort. I mean, I say it to my boyfriend all the time. He knows about my biggest platonic loves and I know about his. It's a matter of trust, your girlfriend trusts you enough to open up to you and joke around about how she feels. Don't take it so hard on yourself, she's with you for a reason, don't you think?
When my boyfriend tells me about celebrities that are "hot" I smile and think "yea, but he's with me :) " Or I even joke around and agree with him about how hot a girl is. Don't take it so seriously.
GOOD LUCK! and patience...
2007-01-28 17:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesnt know that it bothers you. Try talking to her one day openly and honestly about it. Let her know that it bothers you when she talks about other men with how they look. Im sure she wouldnt want you to say to her when a pretty girl walks by " Now that is one fine looking woman!"
Be honest with her and talk. Good luck.
2007-01-28 17:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good girls don't act like that...that's just wrong. I mean, I can see saying things of that sort occaisionally, in a joking manner..but all the time, seriously is absolutely not good...
2007-01-28 16:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it..it may get u jelous when they talk about other hot men but they still love u right? iff im wrong dumped them fast cause we dont need those kinda girls around here...Remeber guys look at hot girls too.
2007-01-28 16:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what type of girls your dating but you need to slow down and chill until the right one comes along. No one needs someone trying to take their kindness for weakness and causing stress. Enjoy yourself and let them move on...with you.
2007-01-28 17:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by dani_girl57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-28 16:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋