So one of my friends who's 15 like me, has been trying to get with this 14 year old girl for quite some time. He always talks about her, but she has no interest in him. My friend is pretty wealthy and generous, and this girl is using him for his money. A 14 year old gold digger! I met her and one thing led to another and now she likes me, but I've seen what kind of person she is and decided I don't want to be involved with her.
So my friend thinks I 'stole' her, now that she doesn't pay attention to him, but when I try to tell him she was using him he calls me a liar! He claims I'm making it up to justify what I did. I didn't do anything! I made out with her ONCE, and he thinks it's the end of the world. How can I explain this to him?!
2007-01-28 08:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him she was using him, but he didn't believe me. I also made out with her because I know he doesn't have a chance, so why pass it up? It's not like he's going to be making out with her anytime soon, regardless of whether i do or not
2007-01-28 08:48:47 · update #1
apologize to the guy and tell him you will never do it again and she is history. But don't forget to stop talking to the girl and keep your promise to him.
2007-01-28 08:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids that age don't seem to have any ethics when it comes to dating. They never did. You made out with her. That's not "nothing". Of course you betrayed him. It doesn't matter if she liked him or not, he liked her. It is the end of his world, for now.
You messed up, and I'm sure you'll do it again before long. People your age do.
You decide how to get your friend back.
2007-01-28 08:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother explaining. He probably won't listen to you either. If you stay away from the girl he'll probably notice. And she'll probably go back to him once you're not in the picture anymore.
2007-01-28 08:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by gigagiggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should have told him that from the begining, wen you saw that she was using him, and how could you make out with her and you knew that your fren was into her, playa that wrong! my advise is to cut all ties with this girl, she is going to ruin a good frenship.
2007-01-28 08:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't. bask in his idiocity and enjoy it. just give him time to calm down and stop being a jerk. tell him in a very angry way your side of the story so he knows you're serious. and if he's still being an immature retard, hang out with different people.
2007-01-28 08:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋