guys u are in love with this girl and u think she feels the same(but never told her) well u have a family (but your single) and she is going to school right now so ur lives are to busy to have a real relationship. Well u had slept with her cuz over the summer and then disappeared for months and when u come back to see her, u find out she had slept with some guy (lost her virginity). so u got hurt. Well she wants you, not the guy. Would you forgive her and be with her?
2007-01-28 08:13:32 · 13 answers · asked by marci_0718 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her sleeping with the other guy was probably just to get even with you. So ask your self did it really mean anything when you slept with her cuz? and would you expect her to forgive you? She did nothing more that what you did. OOPs, I wasn't supposed to answer was I? Oh well, answered anyway!
2007-02-05 07:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in any relationship you always have to be forgiving no matter what happens. Men and women are going to screw up at some point in a relationship, but the best thing to do is talk it out and to forgive one another. There are also going to be lots of "sorrys' ". "I'm sorry for this, or I'm sorry for saying that". Or whatever the case may be. But we have to look at the situation and learn to forgive that significant other. At times they don't mean to do what they have done, but forgiveness is always a great key to a healthy relationship.
I would forgive her. It's nothing to hold over that person. If you broke it off for a few months then got back together then that's a great thing. But you can't relish on what happened when he/she has been gone for a few months and then wants you back. You just got to pick up right where you left off and leave all other matters behind and start a whole new relationship.
MJ
2007-01-28 08:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy, sorry, but if the guy slept with someone else too and still cant forgive her hes got a problem.
2007-02-05 08:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by southerngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do my best to, yes.. Doesn't sound like she cheated on you, you were seperated, right? U slept with someone too, right? Does she have an emotional tie to the person she slept with? That's the difference for me, the emotional tie... But, don't lead her on. If you canb't get yourself to forgive/ forget, let her go.
2007-01-28 08:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, sometimes when youre in love with someone, its easy to be saddened by their past. I have a girlfriend right now that has done things that are hard to deal with but I love her and I'm not going to let her past get in the way of our relationship. Never.
2007-02-05 08:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Paul K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get mad or hurt because we weren't in a realtionship and if we slept together all ready.That means she would lost her virginity with me.I would forgive her and see what happens.
2007-02-05 07:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgiveness is the key to repairing relationships, and not having hatred in ur life because of all the bad things done
2007-01-28 08:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by ₪ ø Ξ .o• The Valiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to forgive, nothing was and nothing is, there was never a relationship of any kind there for nobody got hurt, so go ahead, make her day.
2007-02-05 07:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by GRANPA1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, but I doubt the guy is going to chase you as he did before
if you take the initiative there is a good chance he will forgive you but dont just sit and wait for him to make moves on you b/c it might not happen
2007-01-28 08:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutley if your into each other put the past behind you and move forward no point on dewelling on things that already happened
2007-02-04 21:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by big juicevone2cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋