2007-01-28 08:08:04 · 26 answers · asked by Melissa55 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I don't want to have baby,I'm still single.I just had sex with my boyfriend.please help me.my parents will kill me if they understand.
2007-01-28 08:11:40 · update #1
PLEASE don't try a home abortion. Do whatever research it takes to find a reputable clinic for free or cheap or consider adoption. Taking pills could injure you or the baby permanently. Then you would still have the child but now it would be permanently damaged/deformed or retarded.
2007-01-28 08:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by John 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon your state then it might be possible for you to get emergency contraception, which will actually prevent the pregnancy from happening. Emergency Contraception is not an abortion. However you have to use it within 72 hours of sex or it is ineffective. The "abortion pill" is something different and is not available in the United States, and it can have some dangerous and scary side-effects. It sounds like you don't even know if you are pregnant yet, go buy a test and find out for sure, hopefully you are not, and hopefully you won't make this mistake again. Good luck.
2007-01-28 17:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This decision is very hard. I once had this same problem...I was terrified for my boyfriends father to find out. Well I made the phone call to the abortion clinic..I set the date....They ask a very lot of questions, I was so scared. Well I had a weekend to thing about it and I cried and felt so horrible. All I could think about was I had a maricle inside of me and I was about to KILL it. There is a saying that Pregnancy and giving birth to a child is the only way of assisting God in a maricle...I believe that. I am sorry you are in this situation, but I kept my son, and now I could not picture my life without him. Having an abortion is a life changing choice, so is having a child....but it is something you are going to have to live with. I think that abortions are something that should only be taken seriously and only if it is a result of rape or defects...not for selfishness, your parents WILL understand and they WILL be there for you..just tell them and get help. Also if you have an abortion now you will risk your chances of EVER bearing a child, and you will be asked ALL the time on medical questionairs if you have had an abortion....This is a mature thing and I believe yoare not mature enough to be having sex........I hope you do what is right......My son is perfect....and I cannot even tell you how disappointed I am in myself for EVER even considering killing him....A beautiful smart perfect innocent child, was brought into the world because I realized....killing him was WRONG....
2007-02-01 04:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by rays_babygirl4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being in the exact same situation as you-I'm using my man's account so sorry for the picture of a guy. You can't drop the baby that way all you will do is end up giving the baby defects and hurting yourself. I know this is a really scary time for you. I was seventeen when I got pregnant. You need to realize though that the decision you make right now is going to effect whether or not you can have healthy pregnancies in the future. I recommend that you seek out resources in your community and get some real answers. I would also suggest that you research what that little being inside you looks like right now. It blew my mind when I found out and really helped me make a healthy decision. check out all your options before you make a decision you'll be surprised at what some places can offer. I know it is scary but you will make it through this.
2007-01-28 16:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by felixdeurbana 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to the tired lectures from the right-to-lifers, you have good reasons and the decision's up to you. The answer is the morning after pill. Go to a public health office and they should be able to help you or at least direct you to where you can go. Be sure to ask about confidentiality before you give out personal info where ever you go -- some states take the position that they have to inform parents of minors, but they at least have to tell you ahead of time about the law.
WHATEVER YOU DO, do not have an illegal abortion or try to abort yourself with some home remedy. It is terribly dangerous. Too many women have died this way, and that is why women need to protect their rights.
Good luck. BTW, I am a Christian and I still am pro-choice. I will be praying for you.
2007-01-28 16:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by fragileindustries 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Within a day or so after sex, you can take the morning after pill. Beware that it does make you incredibly sick and it has a slim chance of not working. You can get it from the health department for free, but beware becasue they send things to your mailbox.
Another thing is that you may want to look up abortion clinics. Here in my state, it is $635. First they give you pills if caught early, but if that doesnt work they will have the baby surgically removed. But you will need an adult's consent.
But abortion is wrong, and you shouldnt abort the baby. You chose to have sex and with that you agree to accept responsibiliy. You can keep the baby or put it up for adoption at birth.
Next time, I suggest you use condoms and go to the health department for birth control pills, the depo shot, etc.
2007-01-28 17:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by I Love My Kitties 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are under the age of 18 and live in the U.S. the answer is no. The only way to get the "emergency contraception" in the U.S. over the counter is if you are over the age of 18. If not, you need parental consent and a prescription from a doctor.
2007-01-28 16:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be underestimating your parents.
call ob doc you may not be pregnant.and get on the pill.
please dont do anything to hurt the baby.
you will regret it the rest of your life a nd it will haunt you.
if you are gona have sex at least use a condon for yourself
How much could he love you and use you like that.
You could have gotten a std from him without knowing it.buy some condons and hide them.
if you are going to play big gurls games play to win.
Dont be stupid!
never let anyone touch you without a condon.
Hiv and std are rampant.
herpes and hpv are for ever and can cause cancer,
Just because he dosnt have symtoms mean he clean.
Guys usually have no sytems and are carriers! God bless honey~
Get a home pregnacy test and find out.
2007-01-28 16:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by tennessee 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Please don't, whatever you do make the right decision, pills are not going to work, they'll however damage the fetus, if you must choose abortion, surgery is the only safest way for you and the baby, although i beg of you not to choose that route, you will regret it for the rest of your life, there is always adoption! I think every child deserves a chance at life, i mean someone gave you a chance, and just because your not ready, doesn't mean you have to choose this option for your child. PLEASE DON"T
2007-01-28 16:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Novak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think before you do that. Your baby could have many problems from taking the pill. Why would you wanna kill your inncoent baby. what did it ever do to you. nothing. i know it is scary having a baby at so young but comeing from a 17 now 18 year old mom, your family will be mad at first but once the baby is here they will love it. dont kill the baby. its not its fault. remember making the wrong choice you are going to have to live with it for the rest of your life. my mother-in-law had one and she will tell you it its not worth it. think before you ACT!!
PS. your parents will be more mad if you hide it from them and then go and KILL your baby their Grandchild!
2007-01-28 16:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋