I LOVED HIM VERY MUCH,BUT HE DIDN*T KNOW THAT.SINCE ONE DAY HE STARTED TO CALL ME WITH NOT GOOD NAMES(I HAVE NEVER MEET HIM)(THAT WAS IN OUR SCHOOL).SINCE THAT MY LOVE ISN*T LIKE THEN.I SAD TO ME I DON`T LOVE HIM,BUT I THINK ABOUT HIM AND WHEN I THINK ABOUT HIM I CAN*t SLEEP.
PLEASE HELP ME!
2007-01-28 07:54:59 · 26 answers · asked by monika p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHATS WITH THE CAPS????
2007-01-28 07:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey - that's not love. Love has to grow over time spent together and interacting.
What you are feeling is infatuation. That means that you love the IDEA of you and he being together but it's not happening.
And dear - any so called man who treats you with any sort of disrespect is not even worth your time. Please find some friends who will mutually help you build some self respect.
If you can't sleep over this - try some exercises and a hot shower and warm milk or tea before going to bed. If you can't stop thinking of him, just remember the names he called you and shake your head in wonder that you even gave such a sorry jerk the time of day.
2007-01-28 08:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okayy i kinda have the same problem but with a lot more dramma and it really sucks. okay i think that you start getting to know some other maybe new guys but still show intrest in the same guy just he knows that you just havent dropped him and left. and about the sleep thing theres nothing you can do that will help you sleep more it almost happens to me everynight so if you find something that works let me know.
2007-01-28 08:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by lovely-x.o♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds a like a crush, You need to spend time focusing on building your self-esteem and finding other interest..when the times right - a boy that you can like & will like you back will find you.
2007-01-28 07:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't quiet understand the question. if he hasn't noticed you then, just go to him and tell him how you feel. If its because, hes doesn't like you, then i think its time to move on and find a new love, hard as it is OK? x x
2007-01-28 08:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by slartibardfast_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be infatuation. Infatuation is not love.
-foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration
-puppy love: temporary love of an adolescent
-an object of extravagant short-lived passion
http://wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
2007-01-28 08:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like infatuation or a hard core crush to me.
2007-01-28 08:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you have to ask, you are probably not in love. Perhaps you are still feeling the sting of his words and that is giving you sleepless nights.
Good luck, sweetie!
2007-01-28 07:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by TheAnswerChicks 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
English isnt your first language is it? If I understand correctly he called you some bad names like, "b-tch," and now you cant stop thinking about him.
You've got a stupid little crush. Thats all.
2007-01-28 08:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mike D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you love him,you don't realize it but you said it in your first sentence , That's the reason you can't sleep. Its hard to fall out of love,when you love him a lot.I bet you really know deep down inside you really love him...
2007-01-28 08:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not try putting your thoughts into orderly sentences so we can understand what you're talking about
2007-01-28 08:05:16 · answer #11 · answered by romeo_1595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋