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Adult question?
i dont mean to sound crude when i ask this but dont answer with nasty comments please right here goes.

when my and my partner have sex and he comes weather its in me or not i wretch, like i am going to be sick this has been happening for years i dont know why tho anybody help? anybody else like that? on several occations i have actually been sick

i keep thinking of the fact that it comes from inside his body and that makes me cringe, its not funny

love sex and 4 play so its just the semen thing

not talking about oral sex, just sex even if he pulls out and i dont actually see the sperm i still gag thinking about it

Answer 1

THAT'S SAD BUT IT'S THE WAY OF SEX

Answer 2

Maybe you need to speak to someone professionally about this. There must be a reason for this behaviour .. some deep, hidden thought behind it.

Has your partner tried wearing a condom so no sperm goes in you at all? Probably a very simple thing to say that you've no doubt tried before.

I dont think its a physical problem you're having which is why I suggested speak to someone about it. There is obviously something that makes you hate sperm to the point where you're physically ill.

I really hope you get this sorted and get on to enjoy a healthy sex life. Good luck x

Answer 3

I've never heard of this problem. It obviously *is* a problem for you though, so I suggest that you seek counseling for it. I don't think you should be embarrassed. You love your partner and want to have sex with him, but you don't want to feel sick about it. Is the rest of the sex act OK with you? I think seeing a therapist might help you figure out why this disgusts you so much. In the meantime, use a condom. Maybe if you know that the ejaculate is not actually entering your body but is being contained inside the condom, you might feel better about things.

Good luck and aloha :)

Answer 4

Maybe you need counselling? I heard of someone else recently who didnt like semen. He will have to wear a condom i suppose, but i expect he feels awful. How would you feel if he was sick thinking about your natural juices? I don't suppose you can help it, so you better get counselling.

Answer 5

are you talking about oral sex or normal penetrative sex. if its the normal sex i say you need to see a psychosexual counsellor because its the only way i think youll move on, this obviously stems from somewhere and it needs to be talked about and moved past. if its oral and he comes in your mouth that can be quite normal, but the other way , you reaction isnt natural, you should talk to someone about it. good luck

Answer 6

anthony - surprised to see you answering this questions! you have not had sex in years! Are you forgetting the little problem you have called IMPOTENCY.

Anthony - why not try using the pump that i sent you? pls don't use the viagra - your heart problems - remember?

remember, even if you have a flaccid and permanently limp coque things could be worse.....

let me know if you need me to send you more racy pics of me in the .........................

Answer 7

you have a phobis of sperm it is called spematophobia, its to do with germs

ignore the idiots, its a anxiety condition and your not on a spelilng contest so dont worry about that

Answer 8

Why dont you use condoms, sensible solution! Oops, dont tell the Pope I said that!

Answer 9

does it happen if he's wearing a condom? it's probably a psychological thing so you should talk it over with your obgyn and see what he says, i'd never heard of this before so i don't know what to say. by the way, PLEASE LEARN TO TYPE.

Answer 10

Never heard of his one.
Maybe if you thought that it's the stuff babies are made of instead you may think differently.

Answer 11

May be you have a psychological inhibition for sex!!