ok so my ex-boyfriend of 6 monthes came up to me at my locker and said, " i have to talk to you." we havent talked at all since we broke up b/c it was a really bad break up, and we still loved eachother. there was this big conspiracy of the leak of my giving him a b.j. but thats been over for more than a month. i dont know what this means. please help, any ideas? he ALWAYS hyas a girfriend, and he hasn't had one since we broke up. we dated for 3 monthes, and were inseperable [sp?] at the time. i miss him so much, and i know that its been a long time, but do any of you have any idea what he wants to talk to me about?
2007-01-28 07:17:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he hasn't gotten over you and wants to hook back up
2007-01-28 07:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by m i c h e l l e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... you're going to question your spelling on insepArable, when you have already misspelt months and has??
No problem... Secondly, of course you are confused. You're a girl. You are not expected to understand much anyway.
Thirdly, I don't think it was a rumor was it.
Fourthly, If he wants you back you should know why, if not let me tell you. You gave it up and he wants more because he thinks he cant get it. You would be a fool to even consider letting him return to the holyist of holee's.
Your call but take for a guy who tells it like it is, you will get into the same if not bigger break up and it will start a horrible circle that you do not want in your life.
2007-01-28 15:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ken J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you guys love each other if you only dated for 3 months? You have been separated longer than you were together. If you guys messed around when you were together then he probably justs wants to taste the cake again. If not I don't know what to tell you. Don't fall for any tricks because just as easy as he picks you up he can drop you right back down. Sorry but the truth hurts. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 15:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by angleyez_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not over him. obviously it seems that HE leaked out the b.j. story because only he would know about it and maybe lie about it. i think u should really think about why u guys broke up in the first place. Was it justified? he probably still misses you. i think u should have that meeting or talk with him so u can find out. i believe ur still in high school or middle school b/c u guys still have lockers, so dont even worry about it too much. theres so many guys out there with out drama.
2007-01-28 15:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it really does sound like he could be hung up over you too.
I'll say a little prayer for you, take some really deep breaths before you talk to him so that you're calm and keep smiling!
ps. wear some tasty lip gloss just in case you get a kiss,it'll be one that he will savor for a while and remember when his head hits the pillow!
2007-01-28 15:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats probably his way of telling you he still has feelings for you but he's confused...since he always has a girl and now he doesnt he probably doesn't see anyone that can match up to you...give him some time and try to talk to him...hope it works out for the best...also if you get a v-day pres. it can be a sign
2007-01-28 15:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't been with anyone in a while then maybe he still loves you, but don't get any ideas, he could just want some help with work so keep your mind open and expect anything. (Don't obsess)
2007-01-28 15:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this if this hurts you..!! Decide if you are a ***** first..! If you are, continue with him. Or else, go for a medical examination, confess for that happened and lead a life peacefully..!! Never try something weird like a ******** or having pre-married sex etc.. etc.. !!
2007-01-28 15:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can give you every conjecture in the world and that's all they'll be--- conjecture--- until you talk to him yourself. So don't waste time, get in touch with him and ask him, if it is really a matter of importance to you.
2007-01-28 15:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he wanted to talk to u about getting back together because it isn't normal for guys to ask if they can talk to u if it wasn't about somethings about a relationship.
2007-01-28 15:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back together and make that rumor that was spreading a reality.
2007-01-28 15:23:29 · answer #11 · answered by kcdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋