so i have known this christian girl (not that shes a freak or a nerd...shes amazing)for about a month and a half. we have always text and talked everynight before bed. she told me i could hold her hand and stuff but she doesnt want to lead me on... she wants a good christian guy to fall in love with. i told her to keep her options open and those are pretty high standards. we always tell each other were amazing and how cute we are. she tells me she misses me when we dont see each other for a fewday or a max of a week. we went to the movies last nite with one of her girlfriends from school and i held her hand for the first time...it was awkward at first. do you think she likes me but is scared of not going with her own standards of the christian guy type...? ive told her im starting to gain feelings for her and she said she kinda does too..its confusing
2007-01-28 07:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by starplayer2oo7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and ask her
2007-01-28 07:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it is a good christian guy that she wants, give it to her. Try going to church with her, unless you already have a church to go to or if you are of a different religion. You being a different religion could be a reason that she doesn't want to lead you on. Don't just change that for her, until you know that she is the one that you want, But if you do not go to church, go with her. It will make her think that you really care for what she wants. If she says that she has feelings for you, it should be a done deal. Now with her friend and you holding hands with her at the same time. That is a little weird, but she is starting to trust you more. But at the same time, she could be bi. Just ask her out, just for the two of you and go out to eat and talk with her. It may give you the answers you are looking for, or just talk to her about it while you are texting each other.
2007-01-28 15:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you be a christian like her? well maybe she's just waiting for you to join her. well, it doesn't matter if you cant, as long as you know and feel that the feeling is mutual, well go for it... there's no harm in trying. you wont know until you try.
2007-01-28 15:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by eyjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
standards mean nothing compared to feelings, go with your heart stick with her she seems like shes wants to be there with you also
2007-01-28 15:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask "are you interested" Only take a yes or no answer and deal with it from there
2007-01-28 15:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by cotes77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah she likes you
ask her out directly
if she says no then you know you can move on
2007-01-28 15:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you are doing everything right. keep it up.
2007-01-28 15:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋