2007-01-28 06:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's not your responsibilty to tell his parents to back off, but it is HIS responsibilty.
He should grow a backbone and stand up to his parents and tell them to back off and if they don't, then he's going to have to make a choice, you or them.
I divorced a man for this reason.
His father was always involved in our lives and his son was so weak and such a daddy's boy that he would just sit there and allow his father to yell at me and try to bully me, like I held full control of the purse strings etc, when I did not.
I was with that man for 5 years before I finally decided that I'd had enough.
I ran as fast as I could and got out of that hell, and then my ex followed his daddy's advice and married a woman who was the same age as his mother!
(that was always his father's biggest cripe with me, was that I was a career woman and thought that I was equal to men, and his dad and his son continually tried to hold me down....it was a very painful time in my life and honestly, I do not understand to this day what I was thinking to take such abusive behavior from either man)
2007-01-28 07:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by ghostwriter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the two of you are of legal adult age where you reside; and don't just think that you are adults, there is not too much you can do.
If you are both adults you have to be straightforward and tell his parents that you are old enough and mature enough to lead your own lives.
If one or both of you are under the legal age of consent, I'm sorry to say but he is still under the control of his parents, and therefore the both of you have to deal with them being involved with his/your lives. Best of luck to you and your families.
2007-01-28 06:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your ages. If you are an adult, living on your own, tell them to back off and stay out of your business. Otherwise you just have to let it continue until you are old enough.
2007-01-28 06:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you're both over 18. make your own money and live on your own without your parents help or his parents help, all you have to do is stay away from them.
BUT if you still rely on your parents for support it is obvious you are not mature enough to make your own decisions.
act like a baby, expecte to be treated like a baby.
act like an adult, you can do whatever you want.
understand?
2007-01-28 07:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you two are. If you're still living at home, oh well. If not, "STAY OUT OF OUR LIVES AND LET US LIVE THEM." I think that is clear enough.
2007-01-28 06:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE STRAIGHT FORWARD. I ALWAYS AM. AND IT HAS WORKED FOR ME.
2007-01-28 08:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋