he was seeing my best friend i dumped him but i still really have strong fellings for any ideas let me know i am confused but in love with a cheetah 2 timer what should i do
2007-01-28 06:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should move on i know it hurts but in time you'll get over him, i bet just now your thinkin you dont want to get over him but you'll never really trust him again and healthy relationships need trust if he was that stupid to cheat on u in the first place u can do better than him
hope this helps
2007-01-28 07:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no doubt that you stille love the guy but he was cheating... with your friend none the less. frankly, you just have to be strong and ignore all the b.s. that he will start throwing at you like "I love you and i won't do it again" and what not. you will be tempted to go back with him if he gives you a chance to do so, but know that what he did wasn't something you could just forget. more than likely he will do it again if you get back with him.
like i said, be strong and move on. it will be the best thing you do. no matter how much you loved and cared for him, he obviously didn't feel the same way towards you and thus should make your decision all the easier to move on. there will be somene who will care for you as much you care for them and hey, it won't be hard to find since there are so many people. but seriously, just move along. there is no point to even consider going back to that person, it will only lead to a repitition of what has occured. good luck with whatever decision you make.
2007-01-28 06:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should learn by your mistake. You can not control him, if he is seeing your best friend you have lost 2 people. sorry to hear your heart ache, your boy friend can not be trusted and if you are willing to let him cheat on you then you have a cheating boyfriend for a lover. If you don't want that then move on and find someone that is more trusting and someone who loves you. You deserve more in life than a low life like him. You are better than that. So see him for what he is... i know the feelings are there but move on. You will be better off.
2007-01-28 06:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right to dump him. I know it's hard and it'll take time to get over him but you have to. What kind of boyfriend cheats on you with your best friend? What kind of friend goes out with your boyfriend while your seeing him or even after? Friends should have an unwritten rule that says you should never go out with your friend's ex and she does it while you're seeing him? Screw her and him. You don't want people like those in your life. You deserve better. Cut both of them off and if you even think about being friends with that girl again, you're not a real woman. You can forgive her, but she'll do it again. Take a stand.
2007-01-28 06:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 03:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont give this guy the satisfaction of getting back with him.
your BEST friend?!!! do you need to even ask.
you think you have strong feelings but you probably just don't want to be alone, that's normal. put on your best dancing gear smile at every guy you meet and show the world your best side
the guys love a girl who smiles and if you dont like any of them dont worry, there will be more, theres no rush.
think about you, what you want to be and what you have on your own
you dont need a man to define you.
The purpose of being in love means that you have someone who enhances your life, who makes it even better than it already was.
this guy aint all that
2007-01-28 06:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by flossie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand where you are coming from.....your feelings will go away for him it takes time but be strong. he will realize later how much of a mistake he did. remember once a cheater always a cheater it is very true well i believe. and your best friend that was really not cool on her part. i wouldnt be her friend anymore because it shows that she didnt have no respect for me well either of them did. but just be strong everything will be okay dont worry about it you will find a guy that will appreciate you.
2007-01-28 06:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by summergirl951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK he is no longer ya bf u Kan do better and u best Friend is now an ex best Friend get new Friend's and a new bf they both don't deserve u Good luck Hun
2007-01-28 06:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find something to give yourself a bit of self esteem, find a new best mate too. When you are happy and with someone you deserve make sure you rub their nose in it. It will be hard and you will have bad days when you miss him but it'll be worth it.
2007-01-28 06:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by sally s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you still have feelings but he doesnt- not much you can change about that now is there? find someone else- but your best friend is a best friend- never let a boy get between you 2
2007-01-28 06:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋