this is an email i sent my dad after that i'm done trying. is that ok?
i'm not sending you an email to cause any trouble or grief. i just have a few things to say. respond if you want to or leave at this.
i feel like you missed so much of my life because you didn't want to be in it.
i feel that you never wanted kids.
i feel that you thought raising kids without mom was too hard and gave up.
i want what we use to have.
i miss being your pumpkin.
one day i want you to walk me down the aisle because you want to not because you feel obligated to.
i hate how you tell chelsea that i'm a *****
i hate how you don't want chelsea talking to me because you think i'm a bad influence.
dad,
i graduated with honors, i have a college degrees, i'm supporting myself and i know the real world is hard but i'm making it and have been for 3 years now. i'm 20 and i feel you've missed so much. i'm not trying to pull a guilt trip just trying to get **** off my chest.
love,
natasha
2007-01-28 06:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing wrong with sending him this email. You are telling him how you feel. You are telling him, how sad you are that he was not part of your life and you feel the reason was he didnt want to be in it...and also he was not a good dad which made you think he never wanted you. You are also telling him how much you love and miss him and how you wish he was in your life to share happyness in the future. I think your letter is great...you are, as you said getting it off your chest. It says it all and I wouldnt write any more emails or try to call him etc...because the ball is in his court now and it is his choice to take the next move. He should be proud of you...college degree, graduation with honors and making it on your own for three years. If he does not...well you did your best and you need to move on its HIS LOSS.
2007-01-28 06:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you kid!! i went through somthing like this with my mother. she just couldn't stand me and still can't i have made a better life than she will ever and possilby that is the same eith you and your dad. he loves you to death but for a dad to raise a girl by himself is extremley hard. hopefully he will respond in a good way to your letter. just understadn that he does love you in his own maybe hurtful ways.
2007-01-28 14:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by maryjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok. you really opened up and got a lot of things off your chest there. way to go. most people would not have have been able to do this. good job. hopefully things can work out between you and your dad. good luck.
2007-01-28 14:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's ok. i would have done the same thing. i don't know the whole story but from the looks of it he deserves what you said
2007-01-28 15:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by *princess ashley* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how you put it. You need to have some closure and you should have it now. Good luck.
2007-01-28 14:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because of all of that stuff
2007-01-28 14:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS GOOD TO ME! BALLS IN HIS COURT.
2007-01-28 16:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
yup it is
2007-01-28 14:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Wats up! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋