Me & my gal make a lot of love making(No sex intention frm both sides) and i even touch her b**bs with the clothing.
But whenever i try to remove her top she simply says NO & tells it wud be "too extreme."
Tellme "anything to say" the next time she refuses.
And yes, i am not pushing or anything just wana say sumthing to let her ease up!
I think she says No coz it might lead to sex and BTW i dont wana poke her! - And yes she aint shy and we aint goin too fast either....
2007-01-28 06:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but yes you are pushing. If she's not comfortable taking her top off, then she's right in not taking her top off. End of story!
2007-01-28 06:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She knows you want sex, its really obvious. She either wants to wait right now, or she has a different reason for not tkaing off the top. She might not like the way she looks under the clothing. There isn't anything you can or should say right now.
Wait and keep yourself under control.
2007-01-28 14:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Ebonics IS NEITHER CUTE NOR IS IT INVENTIVE. So please learn to speak and write English properly.
Second, you are pushing her to do something she's not ready for. When she's ready to let you touch her boobs, she'll let you know. You are pushing her and that is EXACTLY what your are doing; so stop trying to disguise it as you trying to make her feel comfortable. SHE'S NOT COMFORTABLE. Only she can decide when that time will come.
So be a good and understanding boyfriend and leave her alone. Besides, it's when you stop trying is when she'll let her boobs bounce freely for you to explore!!!
2007-01-28 15:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want her to do something she is not willing to do, you're not only going too fast, you're committing sexual imposition.
If you can't respect her wishes, she should dump you.
Next time she refuses? Say, "Okay, honey, I love you and I respect you--it's your body."
I'll bet you aren't man enough to do that.
2014-01-11 12:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by MzCalypso 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem issues. she may not like what she sees when her shirt is off. almost every woman has an issue with that. it isn't you it is her. you may tell her all that sweet stuff but realize that that may not help either. its a hard situation
2007-01-28 14:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by maryjane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh spare me.
Of course you want to do it. She knows it. You sound like a horny teenager. You all want to do it.
"No" means "NO!" Don't try to change her mind. Let her change her own mind.
2007-01-28 14:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give her time. we dont like being pushed into doing things. durr
2007-01-28 14:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋