i was seeing this bloke for 3 months it was going great! but the best thing is that we are the bestest mates still and things! for the last two weeks him dad has been getting ill and friday he was taken into hopsital, im really worried about him because he will not talk to me anymore and i think he is getting ill too what should i do?
2007-01-28 06:06:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there for him when he is ready to talk....good luck x
2007-01-28 06:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't take it personally, he would probably react that way with anyone.
he is probably just unable to focus on anything else right now.
he will start to resent you if you keep pushing.
let him you know you are there for him- tell him you are there but will give him space however to call you if he needs you
it sounds like his dad may not have long for this world, and if thats the case he will eventually thank you for being there without demanding his time.
if it doesnt work out then put it down to the wrong time and move on best you can
wounds eventually become scars, they remind you of what happened but dont hurt anymore
2007-01-28 14:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by flossie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think what he needs now is some space but then again he needs some support. Don't push yourself on him cause then he'll think your being inconsiderate. The fact that he's going through a hard time and all you can think about is comforting him sexually.But then again you have to support him cause then he'll think you don't care for him. I don't think that anyone can answer this question for you, cause no one knows the type of bf you have, so i guess you just have to follow your instincts and go with what u feel is right.
2007-01-28 14:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by tifa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont see you or talk to you then just send him a card simply saying "you know where I am, If you want to talk to a friend" post it and then give the guy some 'air' or space. He needs to concentrate on his dad not you. Keep an eye from a distance - he will be fine. He is obviously very close to his father so let him deal with it in his OWN way!
2007-01-28 14:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Confuzzled 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's worried so just support him when he needs you.
2007-01-29 09:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him
2007-01-28 14:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by orphan boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋