AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! two guys, to lives, and i love them both! please, i've tried everything, but i can't decide! and i'm not going to let them go!
2007-01-28 06:05:49 · 15 answers · asked by Look into the Air 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could either drive yourself crazy over who is better for you or try to juggle both and still... drive yourself crazy. best answer is something you clearly stated you weren't willing to do... let them go!
it is the best thing so you could give yourself time to think it through more clearly and who you truly can be without for a longer period of time. in the end it is your choice, but just know that in the end one will have to go and think fast before they both decide to go.
2007-01-28 06:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look you can't have your cake and eat it to. Your in a big mess because your a cheater. And nothing good is gonna come out of those relationships. You will always be frustrated and confused because your going about it the wrong way. For many years women have griped about men being dogs because they cheat on their girlfriends, and wives. You are a dog as well and your selfish. How do you think those men would feel if they found out? you would be lonely I'm sure. Learn from this (Never treat someone the way you don't want to be treated).
2007-01-28 14:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Student 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately for people in your situation, polygamy(nor bigamy for that matter) is NOT legal in any country I know of. Seriously though, only you and you alone can decide what to do and it won't be easy! Before doing anything though, go have nice cup of herbal tea and think things through for a while. You'll come up with the answer soon enough.
2007-01-28 14:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this position, about this time last year.I "LEFTED THE ONE I LOVE FOR THE ONE I LIKED AND THE ONE I LIKED HURT ME AND BROKE MY HEART, THEN I TRIED TO RETURNED TO ONE I LOVED, BUT SHE WAS SCORNED AND THEN LEAD ME ON TO ONLY GET REVENGE, WHILE SHE WAS IN THE SAME POSITION I WAS IN." So my advice to you is not what you wanna hear, but what you need you do and that is to leave them BOTH alone or else all hearts may be broken.
2007-01-28 15:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by ineeddamoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made it difficult for yourself by "loving" (it is quoted for a reason) two guys in the first place. You're the one that is confusing.
2007-01-28 14:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by friggin_express101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men ask the same question about women it's called LIFE.
2007-01-28 14:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see who you are vibing with better. whatever one keep and let go of the other one but tell him you still want to be friends. good luck<3
2007-01-28 14:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by K-ray <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cool. You don't have to decide. Just ride it along and see how it goes.
2007-01-28 14:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by sal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a pros and cons list of each guy. which one has the better list and more to offer? choose him.
2007-01-28 14:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then there's only one thing left to do, have a 3som and if you take me it's a 4som
2007-01-28 14:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋