my ex really acts like he wants me back and he even said im the best thing thats happened to him, and that he loves me. I mean he's paying more attention,and trying harder than when we first went out!!!!!! How do I know if hes just serious about this relationship,or just playing around?? Would it be right to take him back...??
2007-01-28 06:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by : ) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you and him should talk . I think that he don't want to give you up and see you with some body Else .
2007-01-28 06:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by brooklyn diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he his your ex then obviously he isn't telling the truth and most likely doesn't know what he's really feeling. He needs to find himself before throwing the unknown into a very delicate thing. (Love, Relationships) Let him know that he needs to take a break before really commiting to you again. Honesty and Patients are two key factors in the game of love and relationships.
Don't give in too easily to him.
-Nora
2007-01-28 06:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by xxxyasavyxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with taking him. What happened to make you guys break up in the first place? If he's paying more attention he may be serious.
2007-01-28 06:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you rack your brain any further keep in mind that there is a reason that he's your ex. Sometimes we let our love for someone cloud the fact that it will not work. I believe that once you have called it quits that you should trust yourself enough to know that you made the right decision. Move on.
2007-01-28 06:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Eboni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is paying attention to you because he knows he got caught in the game of lies. Why are you going to take back a lie ? How many times he is going to beg you back ? How many times you will find out the truth when he lies ? Ain't you tired of games.
2007-01-28 06:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on why you guys broke up in the first place. it is not uncommon for a guy to go through great lengths to get someone back just to go back to how they were before. you don't have to make the guy jump through hoops or anything to prove that he really wants you back, you'll just have to go with your gut feeling. there is almost virtually nothing a guy wouldn't do to get a person he cares for back, that is true, but it is also true that they revert back to their old selves once they get that person back in most cases. like i stated before, just go with your gut feeling whether or not he really has changed and will stay changed during your relationship.
good luck to you
2007-01-28 06:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well spend some time with him for a couple of weeks and if he is still just as passionate give him another chance
2007-01-28 06:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell by the look in someones eye if theyre joking or not. since hes more serious now than ever before, give him another chance, it sounds like hes serious.
2007-01-28 06:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way he probabaly went out with a girl she broke up with him and now he want to get back with you cause he would not have anyone at all if he didnt get you back
2007-01-28 06:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was u happy with him or not? u need to answer this question -person can change but not too much if he was hurting your feeling before then do not expect much - better to keep your self away from him
2007-01-28 06:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋