2007-01-28 05:58:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, Is this other man worth losing what you have??? Ask yourself that first. We will always have Temptations thrown at us in our life. We have to be mature enough to know how to handle them. Weigh the concequences before you do anything.
2007-01-28 06:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating a guy for 8 years and you aren't married?
If you are thinking about another guy at work, figure out where your relationship is going. If you haven't married after this time, and are thinking about this new guy, you have come to the conclusion that your relationship is going nowhere. If it is not, DISCUSS THE RELATIONSHIP with your boyfriend. If you both come to the realization that you aren't progressing, go your separate ways.
ONLY THEN do you consider the guy from work.
A long long time ago (back when dinosaurs walked the earth) I was pre-engaged to a girl. Turns out she met a guy at work the same time as she met me. She dated me, and I was her boyfriend and later "fiance'", but she continued to see this guy, according to a few of her suspicious friends. They confronted her, and when she admitted it (said she had self-esteem issues), dropped a really broad hint my way. I found out, listened to her explanation, and then said, "See ya!" I was not going to wait around for the other shoe to drop (i.e., when she was going to cheat on me during our marriage). Oh, she lasted with the guy at work about three months after we split up.
If you are reading this, way to go Sarah Beth!
2007-01-28 06:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me ask you something: Do you love your boyfriend ?
and i dont think you love him,cause if you had you wouldn`t be asking this question.
i know that it could be really hard to give up to an 8 years relationship,but if you are beginning to have questions and to look for someone else maybe there`s something wrong. maybe 8 years is too much.. maybe that routine have come into your relationship. in other words i would advice you to see what are that`s guy`s intentions. see if it works. see if he likes you too..if you are right for him or he for you. i`m not saying to break up with you boyfriend for a guy you don`t know.i`m just saying to take into consideration.. to be opened to something else.
2007-01-28 06:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by anya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the guy from 8 years. chances are, the guy at work wont last for 8 years or longer. good luck.
2007-01-28 06:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to stay with the guy for 8 years, but I'm wondering, are you married? If not, then why haven't you gotten married yet?
2007-01-28 06:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay with your bf of 8 years. what if you break up with him, and you go out with this guy and he dumps you after couple of months? your just going to chase the other guy back.
2007-01-28 06:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by alaina marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while ur at work do u think about ur bf whne u r near htis guy???whne ur wiht this bf do u think of this boy from work when ur in with ur bf b/c if u do think of him while ur wiht ur bf u reallly need to end it
2007-01-28 06:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋