Some people marry the one who they met in college. I'm in my thirties and have only been serious with two women since I turned twenty five. (The age most of my friends settled down.)
Neither was the right one. :(
I still can not get past the second date before one of us is turned off. :-(
2007-01-28 05:49:56 · 10 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might be placing to much pressure on yourself. Sometimes
when we do this no matter how hard we try, things just don't go
right! My story is similar to yours,I dated many girls. and never found someone that i felt i could spend the rest of my life with.
finally i backed off and kinda let things go. When I was about
thirty five I finally meet a young lady. There was a compatibility
factor there, we dated about one year, and were married. we
bought a house had two children, and are very happy. You'll
find someone just stop trying so hard!! She is out there looking
for you, have faith and the two of you will Meet. The Power Of
Love......
2007-01-28 06:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by jon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you want to get married ...
Many women are happy with having their children before they turn 40, say 38. So figure 5 years married 1st, & dating her 1- 3 years, that puts you at about 30.
You've got 5 years my friend - git goin'! Go to parties, join clubs take classes. Meet as many women as possible - it's like sales, a numbers game, a series of nos until you get a "yes'.
Maybe you can even join one of those 5 minute dating clubs. If you're working, consider some dating services.
2007-01-28 06:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Pete R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between 1 and 75
2007-01-28 05:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no certain amount it takes time some find the one in one or two dates. Some take 1 or 2 years! Dont rush it and dont try to look for it let it come to you.
2007-01-28 05:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lashaun A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very good question my friend i have been asking myself that same question over and over. What is it going to take? Yeah you are right when you are in your 30's you want to be stable in a relationship that's building towards many years as our grandparents. I'm stuck when you find out the method hit me up, and let me know what it takes. I'm puzzled just as you are.....LOL
2007-01-28 06:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by jms2000us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes what it takes. I am 33 and just left an unhappy marriage.....a month later I met a great guy who has made me happier then I have ever been before.
2007-01-28 05:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me start counting how many boys i dated before i meet the one 1,2,10,100,3876.......lost counting what i mean is that it's not easy to find some one you consider him/her the one and you still young you still young you 75 year ahead of you to live so you must have some hope in the world.
2007-01-28 05:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit looking. just change your routine. go to the movies, a library, a pub, a coffee shop, the park or somewhere you enjoy. but dont go out expecting to find "the one" and soon enough, you will bump into her when you least expect it. but dont go to a bar to find her......she is there just looing to get laid. the bar is the WORST place to look for love.
2007-01-28 05:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by zimmzimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it depends.You will find the right one at the right time.
Good Luck!
2007-01-28 06:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set times it takes to find the one it is a totaly random thing. dont give up you will find her soon
2007-01-28 05:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋