2007-01-28 05:42:42 · 14 answers · asked by Iceman_107 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw.... ive already tried twice dating behind her back and its kinda boring....
2007-01-28 09:30:09 · update #1
Ask them to see a movie or hang out at the mall. Tell your Mom that you are staying over a friend's house and hang out with the girls instead. I'm sure you have a friend that would back you up if your mom ever called to see where you were. A double date with your best bud and two girls would be your best bet. Then when your date was over you'd really be sleeping over at your friends house. Kinda like not totally lying to your mom just not sharing all the details. What she doesn't know won't hurt her and you will be happy.
2007-01-28 05:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Happy Bunny to the rescue! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with them. Hang out and have a good time with them as you would any other friend. Introduce them to your mom. Let her get to know them. Then, talk to your mom about dating one of them and see what she says. I think that if you take things slowly and don't put pressure on yourself, the girl(s), or you mom, this could be worked out. You have to be able to show your mom that you are ready to date and that the girl you have chosen is a good person. Then she might trust you (and the girl) a bit more and allow it. Just remember, school should come first. Make sure that if your mom says it's okay to date, this girl doesn't interfere with your education. Above all, keep communication between you and your mom open. That way she'll trust you and you can always feel like you have someone to talk to and ask advice from. Good luck!
2007-01-28 05:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her over to study.
Your mom probably just wants you to concentrate on your schoolwork, this would keep you doing that, and give you a chance to socialize with the girl one-on-one. I think the girl will appreciate the chance to be around you without it becoming a sexual situation also. Then later when your mom lets you date and her mom lets her date, you'll have the inside track with her mom.
Good luck!
2007-01-28 05:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by headmaster382005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mom dukes is being over protected of her son it seems. Maybe she doesn't want to let go and realize that her baby-boy is growing up. Than again her being over protected is her way of showing instead of telling not to get all caught up with some female, and she becomes prego at a young age. Have a sit down with mom dukes, and explain to her what's on your agenda when it come to females, and ensure her that you are not trying to make the mistake of getting some female prego at a young age and miss out on the goals that you have set forth to follow.
2007-01-28 05:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by jms2000us 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you yourself a girl? Mom's do have some serious control over daughters if they had instilled this control over many7 years.
If you are a Boy BS...plus there might be something really mentally wrong with her.
2007-01-28 05:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your mom if she will allow you to rent a movie and invite her there. Maybe she will not see any harm in that.
2007-01-28 06:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet with them as part of group activities.
2007-01-28 05:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that anyone should interfere in those kind of things, you choose who will you date and be with
2007-01-28 05:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with them after school when ur mum thinks ur doing something else.
2007-01-28 05:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you relly do like these girls what else can you do besides go behind your mothers wishes... just keep it a secret
2007-01-28 05:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by yungluver07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋