so i'm pretty sure my crush likes me too. he told me to call last night and i said i would, but i didn't this is the 2nd time i did that. i'm not playing with him its just when i dial the number it rings like twice then i get nervous and hang up. i'm 13 and never called a guy on the phone before. he doesn't know i like him, and i'm really shy to talk to him in person but i do online all the time so he probably thinks i'm reallly weird. when i just like him a lot. now since i didn't call hes ignoring me. and i guess its a bad thing because hes extremely nice and doesn't just get mad fast. i texted and asked if he wants to know why i'm so shy and he doesn't even reply back. and i sent him another one aasking if hes ignoring me and he still doesn't reply. i was going to tell him i like him. what should i say or do now?
2007-01-28 05:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by alaina marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not some creep off the internet, he goes to my school, he just talks to me online.
2007-01-28 05:43:04 · update #1
he probably thinks your playin him, tell him why you didnt call him. dont ask him if he wants to know why. be honest and just tell him how you feel.. its hard to, but once you do, its such a relief! and then sit back and wait , see what happens...
2007-01-28 05:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should back off and let him come to you if/when he comes to his senses. He knows you like him. If he has caller ID, he probably even knows you tried to call and perhaps that you're jsut nervous. Don't chase him or try too hard to explain yourself. He understands and he might be nervous too. Don't fall for any game he might be playing by not responding. You really didn't do anything wrong. If he really wants to talk with you, he will be in touch with you. You could also ask him to call you when he's ready, which might alleviate some of your stress.
2007-01-28 05:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem not to long ago. if he doesn't like you for who you are then he's not worth your time. What i did was i just let it go and now i like someone else. before everytime my friend would use my cellphone to call him i would never talk to him because im so shy. the thing is he knew i liked him so it was weird for him and me. we would only talk online and never talk in school. that was the problem. take my advice. Come out of your comfort zone and start talking to him in school, if you do that be all flirtacious he will begin to like you. trust me it works. i could probably have any guy i want i just won't give them the chance.:-)
2007-01-28 05:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by K-ray <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message and apologize for not calling when you said you would. Then ask him to call you; if he does, ask him out. If he doesn't forget about him; too many fish in the sea. What ever you do, don't ask him on on a text.
2007-01-28 05:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by A J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young to have to be playing these head games with guys. When guys are teens all they want is sex anyway they arent really interested in you as a person.
2007-01-28 05:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go easy about it, and let the phone ring more than twice before you hung up.
Take your time, go slowly and it will go fine.
Good luck.
2007-01-28 05:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him~ Start by say hey- what's up- proceed with- whatcha doing~ where you at~ then allow him to say what he would like to ect....Hope this helps!
2007-01-28 05:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard maybe since you like him so much it seems like hes ignoring you. maybe in his eyes hes not, you need to tell him asap
2007-01-28 05:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by TWINS#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋