She's 38, a mother and also relatively conservative, quiet.
I'm concerned with how she would perceive a kiss at this point.
2007-01-28 05:32:55 · 14 answers · asked by kidagain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's gone out with you more than once, she likes you and she wants to kiss you.
Every woman of every age wants to feel desirable. If you wait to long to kiss her, she may think you don't think she's pretty or sexy enough.
Since you say she conservative, I would maybe try kissing her on the cheek first -- just to see how she responds. If she seems to be cool with that, try the peck next. Then you will know where to go from there. :)
Good luck!
2007-01-28 05:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first date or have you gone out a few times? Anyway, it is not unexpected to have a good night kiss at the end of a date, especially if the date went well and the two people seemed to have connected.
It does not have to be a deep affectionate kiss, but let her know you enjoyed the evening, enjoyed her company, and hope to be able to see more of her. Move forward for a nice small kiss and see how she responds.
2007-01-28 13:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well KidAgain when the time is right you'll know. Allow your instincts to guide you and you cannot go wrong. I began dating again at 47 and felt much like you did and it was on our third date that I actually gave her a kiss. We are now engaged and set to marry on May 20. Best of luck to you in this relationship and hopefully you will both be very happy in it.
2007-01-28 13:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it or decide when the "proper" time is. Just wait for a moment when you connect and then just lean in to kiss her, and do it slow enough so you can see her reaction. If she doesn't want to kiss you yet she'll back off. If she does she'll meet you half way or just stay still and let you kiss her!
2007-01-28 13:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tamara N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I started dating again at 45, and sometimes it was on the first date, sometimes it was on the second or third. You will know by the way she responds. If she turns her head, she is definitely not ready, but if she kisses you back, or she puts her arms around your head as you kiss (before you put your arms around her), she is ready!
2007-01-28 13:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever the moment happens. i mean, you don't counterpoint every moment of the day, so why try to counterpoint a kiss? you should just go with the flow they say, whenever it feels right for you. if it seems like it feels right for her that is. and if you're hesitating, because you dont want her to get the wrong idea or something, then kiss her on her cheek. for starts.
2007-01-28 13:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by ღ❤Crystal❤ღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just sort-of lean up to her and see what she does--do some eye contact before that.
Usually they'll do things like put on some lipstick in front of you or they'll play with their hair. Or they'll brush up against you.
Or sometimes they'll go for the unexpected sneak attack--just plant one on her cheek when she least expects it.
2007-01-28 13:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on how touchy feely your relationship is. if you cuddle, and hold hands, and snuggle on the couch together, then i'd try a kiss, just make sure the time is right (feelings wise) there's no time table, you cant say, hmm 2 months we need to kiss. but if it feels right, then try it, its better to apologize for making her feel uncomforable, then to not show your affections. i dont think a kiss is pushing the boundries too much. but if she starts to pull back...put it on hold
2007-01-28 13:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by amana5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the first date. Smile and withdraw in good order. Make her wonder when.
2007-01-28 13:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for a romantic dinner and then when you take her home, kiss her goodnight...as simple as that.
2007-01-28 13:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋