Okay so im in college and my girlfriend always invites her roomate along on everything we do. her roomie thinks we all are the best of friends but really i just cant deal with the third wheel. sometimes its seems that my gf sides with her roomie over me and i feel that im exiled from any form of communication with her, and just feel like i shouldnt be their. my gf says she cares about me and wants to be with me and that im most important in her life...what should i do? whose right me or my gf?
2007-01-28 05:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to your girlfriend and tell her you want some time with just the two of you with out her room mate
2007-01-28 05:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by ihearthim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating the roomie. If your gf doesn't care date them both and have fun.
2007-01-28 05:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like one of two possibilities here. First, your gf could be asking her roommate to tag along for the protection angle(you know, the safety in numbers/preventative date rape issues) for the BOTH of you. Secondly, it could be she has an issue with being shy or even uncomfortable about being on her own for the first time in her life. Talk to her about it before you do anything drastic or even dumb.
2007-01-28 05:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't take her roomie everywhere you go! a relationship needs one on one time! you're just gonna have to tell her that you want to go out with just her more often. but make sure she knows that you like her roomie, you just don't want her around so much!
2007-01-28 05:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk 2 her and tell her u want 2 talk 2 her alone with out her roommate around. Tell her 2 come over and tell her whatz on ur mind.
2007-01-28 05:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at it as who's right and who's wrong. Just tell your girlfriend "baby your friend is cool but, I would love for us to spend some time alone sometimes."
2007-01-28 05:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best and the only answer for that bring some one with you so that he could seat with her and bring a single one so that he might like her or she liked him in that case the next time 4 of you will go out they will seat alone so that you can seat with your GF .
2007-01-28 05:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right! but a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship should not consist of your friends. Tell her you dont like going EVERYWHERE with the roomate. she wouldnt like it if you bought your home boy with you two on every date! sit down and talk to her about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 05:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lashaun A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should suggest that you date both of them - at the same time and on the same date!
2007-01-28 05:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to talk to your girlfriend about your problem with the third wheel, if you havent, try
2007-01-28 05:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by yungluver07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋