Is an age difference of three years ok?? I mean like a 14 and 17 year old together... would we have to worry when he turns 18??
2007-01-28 05:24:36 · 19 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like we aren't doing anything sexual cuz we are both very devout christians & think people should wait, but could we get in trouble for just dating when he turns 18?? On top of that he recently joined the marines so will that effect us in anyway??
2007-01-28 05:32:39 · update #1
IT SHOULDN'T MATTER AS LONG AS NO ONE SNITCHES ON YOU
2007-01-28 05:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At those ages there are some pretty significant differences in mental and physical development. Just look at guys your age and young women his age and you'll see right away. It can work out for you if you have a good connection and other factors are not at play. 3 years is not too bad but 2 years would be better, and the same age would be best. At least until you are both out of college and fully developed into adulthood. As for legal issues there would be problems if you are intimate and he is 18. Statutory rape for example can be between consenting people but where one is too young.
2007-01-28 05:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pete R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At those a lengthy time period there are some fantastically substantial alterations in psychological and genuinely progression. in uncomplicated words seem at adult males your age and youthful women persons his age and also you'll see the great selection away. it ought to artwork out for you once you've a sturdy connection and assorted factors at the on the spot are not at play. 3 years isn't too undesirable yet 2 years may be more desirable suitable, and the similar age may be stunning. a minimum of until eventually eventually you're both out of faculty and entirely more desirable into adulthood. As for offender matters there is topics when you're intimate and he's eighteen. Statutory rape as an celebration may properly be between consenting people yet the position one is in uncomplicated words too youthful.
2016-10-16 05:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by rotchford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In many states that would be considered a crime, I had that same problem here but since he turned 18 we decided to end it and stay as friends but we still take care of each others like if we were still going out.. Hope this helps you...Kathy
2007-01-28 05:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of a deal anymore you know. There are so many girls who are 14-15 who are dating 18-19+. If you guys get along and understand each other then its perfect and you shouldn't care what others think.
2007-01-28 05:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I am older than my boyfriend. three years is not a lot,but at that age people with change a lot and mature. YES if you are active with him when he is 18 it is statutory rape. Been there done that be careful
2007-01-28 05:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by surfawave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you have a problem.
You are below the age of consent. Check and see what that age is in your state. He can be charged with statutory rape if something DOES happen. Actually, if y'all are in Texas, he's already considered an adult and can be charged.
2007-01-28 05:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girl, concentrate on YOUR schoolwork! You don't need a boyfriend at this time in you're life. If he likes you now, he'll like you even more when you are 18, and a graduate.
2007-01-28 05:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe its ok even to have sex as long as its either 2 or 3 years between you two if he's 18 so its ok i guess
2007-01-28 05:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by KILLER 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 yrs is ok but it really depends on the degree of maturity of the 2 u.
2007-01-28 05:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by Quasi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
three years is nothing. the fact your 14 is a problem. i say wait a couple of years then try again. but if you feel mature enough then you have my blessings.
2007-01-28 05:36:19 · answer #11 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋