He looks for reasons to call me up and talk to me. He acts cold sometimes but then when we're together he wants to get close though he says we have broken up he cant see me with any other guy and gets very jealous. He keeps wanting me to go with him whenever hes meeting up with his friends and his behaviour is confusing me. What should i do?
2007-01-28 05:10:09 · 10 answers · asked by devilz advocate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the relationship is over, it's over. People have a tendency to break-up and do this ping-pong thing instead of letting go because they want to stay where they feel most comfortable and familiar even if the emotions and happiness aren't there.If you allow him to do this you're giving him an invitation to play games with you and do relationship type things without making a commitment. This should be unacceptable to you. Let him know that you're not friends and he would like to be friends in the future you need to time apart to resolve your feelings for him. Let him know that you are going to date other guys and you need for him to understand if he's going to still be in your life. If he wants all this time with you, let him know you need a commitment and he can't commit let him know you need more space.
2007-01-28 05:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him why he's sometimes cold. If the answer is good, get back with him. If the answer is dissatisfying, he might just be a moody person and should be left alone.
2007-01-28 05:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by A J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you want. If you think you really care about him & can deal with him and his ways, then maybe you should reconsider it. If not, then just tell him straight up that you don`t think it`s going to work anymore.
2007-01-28 05:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by miscellaneous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost, you don't have the time or patience to second guess what it is that he really wants. That type of confusion you can live without.
2007-01-28 05:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone. He has no idea what he wants. Tell him he needs time away from you to really sort out what's going on in his head and his emotions.
2007-01-28 05:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by sixnow25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to him. He says you are broke up. Stop acting like his door mat. Put a whole lot of space beteen you and him. Don't be a looser.
2007-01-28 05:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might want to get back together with you and just acts like a jerk cause he cant believe you too arent together any more.
2007-01-28 05:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by ebony g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be his friend not his girlfriend because it looks this is what he wants
2007-01-28 05:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop allowing it to happen, sooner or later this will turn into a controlling issue,.....he already doesnt want you being with anyone else but uh, he still wants to controls your every move.....get out
2007-01-28 05:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's still atached. Try to get back together!
2007-01-28 05:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋