how can i get a boyfriend????

Question

im the only one out of all my friends who has NEVER had a bf. im 15 and have been single my whole life!!! ive never been kissed or anything! i had ONE date to a dance, and he ditched me there. i have THE WORST luck with guys, and idk why. its not like im hideously ugly. im not being concieted, but people always tell me how pretty i am. strangers come up to me in stores and tell me i should be a model. my moms friends always say "oh im sure becky has boys calling her left & right" and the truth is a guy has NEVER called me! EVER! i feel SO left out, esp. when i see people holding hands and kissing in the hallways. im very shy, but im trying to be more outgoing. i seriously think i will be single forever. guys never even giveme a second look. ill spend hours getting ready, and guys just see right thru me to the wall. i get so depressed sometimes i dont even wanna leave the house. i really need help ='[

Answer 1

Thats too little time to be complaining about never having a bf. May I suggest asking your friends to set you up with someone? That can help a lot i should think.

Answer 2

have you ever thought that you are trying to hard and come across as desperate, In your mind you have all bases covered, what it will be like to be kissed, holding hands , The truth of the matter is that all comes natural, after you have met, made friends with, and gotten to know some one, Do not judge the girls or guys that make this all happen in one day, You have to make friends with several guys, not as boy friends but as friends. They might be a bit intimated by you if you do look like a model then they to might think that you always have boys coming around. It is only after you become friends with some one that you can confide that you are in fact not up to your ears in boyfriends.But again be a friend first. Guys love to know who they are dealing with. This is also how and why trash gets handed around to be used and passed along, so do not become some ones leftovers

Answer 3

i never had a boyfriend until i met the one im with today we have been together for two years and im 18 now, i waited for everything, my first kiss is with this guy, we have been though everything together....its so cool to share these experiences with him. what im getting to is dont rush into things just becuase you want a b/f eventually the right guy will come around and you will be so happy! i know how you feel i was there once, but for now focus on school, friends, and your after school activities...believe me, it will happen, you'll find someone someday, you have a long time to worry about boyfriends, sometimes there just added stress anyway!! gd luck hun!

Answer 4

Some guys think that pretty, shy girls are stuck up and think it would be a waste of time to ask them out because they would just turn them down. Try to be outgoing and they will talk to you more. I used to be shy like that but if you just be yourself people will like you more.

Answer 5

Wow gurl I got da same problem.But then I asked my friend to see if this boy likes me and it turns out he did so that worked out pretty well. So you should try having a friend help you out if your too shy to do it yourself.

Answer 6

try to meet new people and flirt a lot with guys like at parties or public places. good luck plus don't worry you won't be single all you life.

Answer 7

I don't know. Are you fat? If so, then that's it. Shy has nothing to do with it. I like shy girls, they're cute. But I don't know you, I'd go out with you, though. Definitely.

Answer 8

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