i am asking this in respect of a family friend, not myself!!!
two youngsters, both 16. future step brother/sister.
parents of each respective child are engaged, been together for 6 years, long standing very secure, marriage soon.
children have grown up together for 6 years, have recently started to have more than friendly feelings for each other.
both mum and dad of children very ok with the blossoming relationship, other siblings are as well.
just wondered if any other people have gone throough the same/similar experience. the relationship has not had any problems as far as any other adults in the family are concerned.
they go to seperate schools, so problems with other school kids should not arise.
just wondering what other peoples experiences in this area are. thanks.
2007-01-28 04:35:43 · 5 answers · asked by thorspad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well I have no problem with this at all as they are not blood related. My cousin is going out with her mums boyfriends son and all is going well. They have been together for three years now and they could not be stronger. Some people are just so narrow minded at things like this. You cant help who you fall in love with. Step does not mean you are blood related so there is no law saying its wrong or you cant get married. People should let people be as long as the couple are happy. I know some people in my family are not happy about it but i say stuff them as its none if their business.
Good luck to them and i hope they are happy.
2007-01-28 21:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have no complaints. they share no blood, and i see no reason why they shouldn't have a relationship. some people might be narrow-minded enough to make the wrong conclusion, particularly if they end up having the same name as a result of their parents' marriage. if they don't, however, it shouldn't be a problem, since most people won't even blink when it comes to that. and the people who do know, will know that they are not genetically related, and that it isn't a problem.
2007-01-28 04:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had step kids and personally i would not feel right about my son going with my partners daughter, especially if they have grown up together, it would be like brother and sister, i am not saying don't support them, that's up to you, if you feel that it's ok, then let them blossom, good luck to the both
2007-01-28 09:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most situations like this is hands off, because of respect for family. because you are still introduced and brother or sister.
2007-01-28 04:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can work and it does work so let love blossom
2007-01-30 03:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋