i been with my girlfriend for 18 months but am not sure if its what i want & shes always talking to some guy who she lies to me about when shes talking to him, i think there might be something going on because she's cheated on me before and always lies to me, plus this guy and her have history. what do i do??
2007-01-28 04:34:33 · 14 answers · asked by dawsonboy09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is committed to the relationship that you have together, then she would be willing to cease communicate with her ex's. To keep the conversation going with them, it's like keeping a spare on the porch, just in case the current situation does not work out.
Remember, look at yourself and determine what you are willing to live with. No one deserves to be with someone who is unfaithful and lies. That generally shows they do not have the same feelings for us as we do for them.
We don't have to accept a situation that is unpleasant when there are Billions of people to choose from in this world.
2007-01-28 04:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that she is cheating on you again just break up with her. Don't make yourself look like a left over around her. She just has you there as a backup in case things don't work out with the guy she is messing around with. Dump her, you could find someone better that her!!!
2007-02-05 10:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lil' mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to date around, this girls only gonna break your heart over and over. Let her go and be with whoever she wants. Who says you have to just date one girl at a time anyway? As long as your upfront and honest you should be able to see as many as you like. Let me tell you something marrage is supposed to last a long long time, so there will be many years of your life with just one. So now's the time to explore many avenues so that you are able to make a great decision on who you want to live your life with and make babies. This girl is a bad decision, she doesn't respect you. Life is too short to be treated like a chump. Find a few that appreciate you and pick one of those to be with instead. You'll be happier.
2007-02-05 11:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. You KNOW what is going on. Break it off. Even if she begs - tell her you just aren't right for each other. Then feel bad for one day...you are only allowed one day. Move on. Go find a girl you feel you are sure about, is in your corner and that you trust, or date lots of women. You will be so happy you did!
2007-01-28 12:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She apparently doesn't appreciate you. She cheated once, and now she's doing it again. Don't let her take advantage of you like that. If she hasn't introduced you to the other guy, it's probably because she has alternative motives with him; she is more than just friends.
2007-02-05 07:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her ***. No one should put up with obvious lies, especially if she's cheated before. You'll never have that same initial trust.
2007-01-28 12:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there just friends but what veer the case is dont take things serouly bc your in a new relationship
2007-02-05 12:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by mickie1108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it! and if u still know that she's lying to you about it...break up w/ her! if she has to cheat on u to get wat she wants...ur not worth it!! and ur too good for her! cuz..no offence to her but if ANY girl cheats...she's a s-l-u-t! and i have said that more than once!
2007-02-05 10:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO, GET RID OF HER. YOU APPEAR DESPERATE PUTTING UP WITH THAT MESS, UNLESS YOU ARE OK WITH SHARING YOUR PIECE OF A** WITH THE OTHER FELLAS.
2007-02-05 10:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, you deserve better than that! Really!
2007-01-28 12:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Coolblondeguy81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋