or is it god that hates me?? all my life ive been made fun of, abused, sexual asulted/raped, and used by guys. i am a nice person and I never did anything really mean to anyone or any guy. i dont understand. I finally found a BF and we really like each other but now he has to switch schools. is god trying to make me a stronger person? or does he just not like me?
2007-01-28 04:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by kyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know what you mean. literally. i am a guy and have suffered all that and more but i am a stronger person because of it. and i have used my experiences to help others. if god has a plan and this is your role in it then you have somrthing to learn here. you could become someone great because of it of meant to help another from making the same mistake. cold comfort for now but believe me life will get better if you try to change it. i wish you good fortune in your life ahead:)
2007-01-28 04:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear that you have had such a hard time but unfortunately some peoples lives are full of hard times - it will make you a stronger person and also a better person. You can change future situations by the choices you make. I do not think that is has anything to do with god hating you, it is life and some people have to suffer more than others.
You have your whole life ahead of you - you can move away and start a new life with new people and hopefully a much better and brighter future.
You will be sad losing your b/f but I can tell you that there are many more nice guys out there and you will find happiness - all the best for your future xx
2007-01-28 04:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can't answer the God question since I'm not a believer,but as for being used by men-they treat you like that because you let them! You need to develop a thick skin and don't put up with any of their c**p.
2007-01-28 04:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 12:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by wolter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have horrible lives and some have nice lives...u r one of the unlucky ones..but the good thing is you will have a good life now because everything horrible has already happened to you...try to think a bit more positive.
2007-01-28 04:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves you! Never ever doubt that for one second. The Bible says that we will have trials and tribulations. You are the clay and God is the potter. He is shaping and molding you into the person he wants you to be. Turn your life totally over to God. Put Him first in your heart. And he will answer the desires of your heart.
You need to examine your life. Are you hanging around with ungodly people? What changes do you need to make in your life that will glorify God? God loves you, never forget that!
2007-01-28 04:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
your confidence has been knocked so many times you are looking to hard at this if he moves schools why can you not see each other also you are still young give life a chance
2007-01-28 06:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by mt1uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. lets get some perspective here. your only in school so you are probably exagerating everything. your life is not over, its just begun. you have all the time in the world to find another guy. just relax. school should be a time for fun. quit acting so negative and move on!!!!!!
2007-01-28 04:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You may be too soft my dear, hence people walking all over u etc, u need to toughen up love.
LOL Jimmy essex UK
2007-01-28 04:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by DIAMOND_GEEZER_56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have a victim mentality! Stuff happens to everybody, just get on with life. If you feel you need to get some help from a counsellor/GP but do not wallow in self pity, it will get you nowhere and it will make people "run" away from you!
2007-01-28 04:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋