Me and my ex were together for two years. We went to College together and I have never met a man like him in my life. He is funny, super intelligent, witty, prepared, protective, loving, and strong. I could not imagine a more "perfect" man for me! But things went totally downhill about five months ago when we moved away from each other after living together. He started communicating with me less, stopped visiting, and stopped having sex with me as often. Our relationship was down the tubes. He broke up with me citing issues of needing some space and not being in love with me. HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN? How does your heart change stations? Can you heart discontinue feelings/emotions for your first love?
2007-01-28 04:27:44 · 13 answers · asked by Elena07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure he loves you very much but the problem with college relationships is that you miss out the opportunity to really get to know other people and therefore yourself. When you moved apart he had the opportunity to get to know other people and explore other options. This has no reflection on you but is a very natural part of growing up. That is why adults always tell kids they have their whole entire lives ahead of them and not to rush into anything. You learn, you grow, you change your mind. I know that he loves you because he had respect enough to let you go instead of stringing you along, continuing to sleep with you, act as if nothing has changed and hurting you even more. Be thankful even though your heart is broken. Time apart from the relationship showed him perhaps he's not ready to be in a commited relationship, especially living together. Beleive that as great as he is..he's not the only great guy out there in the world and you owe it yourself to explore your options as well. Chances are if he's willing to let you go he's the not the man you want and need him to be anyway.
2007-01-28 05:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is strong, but delicate at the same time. We all have different love needs. Apparently one of your boyfriend's strongest needs was doing things together. Without that, his love tank emptied until he didn't have any love anymore. Check out a book called "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. I suggest this to anyone in a relationship.
2007-01-28 04:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to fall out of lve,i did n as of 2day i dont regret it.u grow up with time.and it will stop hurting,dont start a new relation as a rebound.just love urself and i bet u wont need anyone else.it is time thst u realize ur value.if it was love it will return if it doesnt it never was urs
2007-01-28 04:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by prkumr123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take a while but u have to learn that theres other ppl out there. And yes i do think u can fall out of love with someone it takes a while but i can happen
2007-01-28 04:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Abecrombie_Cutiie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called life happens all the time
2007-01-28 04:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl move on nothing ever stays the same,sorry dear but im sure ur true loves out there,good luck
2007-01-28 04:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't possible, you just need to stay as far from your ex as possible, end of story, good night!
2007-01-28 04:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. Give it time
2007-01-28 04:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by styler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow apart all tha time.
2007-01-28 04:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea cuz if its like my situation was he turns into a total jerk taotally ignores you and eventually u get fed up with it (like i did) and walk away
2007-01-28 04:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋