Okay here's the situation, I'm 16 year old girl and am having a guy dilemma. There are three guys who i like, but I'm not one of those girls who likes 15 guys and prays one will ask her out. I pick one and stick by him, but the problem is that I can't pick which one I would want to devote my time to. The first one is 16, 6 feet 3 inches tall with blonde hair and blue eyes, he's a star on the basketball team and is a devoted catholic. The second one is 16, 6 feet tall with dark brown hair and dark brown eyes, he's really really smart and is also a star on the basketball team. The third is 16 also, 5 foot 11 and he has curly brown hair and green eyes, he's so much fun to be around and was rookie of the year for football. They are all really really great guys, but I have no idea what I should do, I could really use some input. Thanks!
2007-01-28 04:22:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well what do u know about there personality the one that you chose could be a complete jerk so learn about there personality before u make your decision and go with the one you like the most not one that has been chosen for u.
2007-01-28 04:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16! Does it really matter.
I mean, if you felt something serious for any of these guys I would say to follow your heart, but there is no heart involved in this decision. You haven't even discussed what these guys are like as people except to say that they are all "really great guys" - you've only really described their physical attributes.
You may as well just flip a coin a few times to make a decision.
Cheers
2007-01-28 12:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be asking more about which physique / high school athletic career suits you more.
bear in mind that a relationship goes deeper than that, so you have to pick the one who understands you the best. try and pick the one who is willing to listen, who's there when you're down, and who isn't "asking" for that special "thing".
anyway, you're 16, you don't have to commit just yet. go meet people, enjoy your dates, and take your time picking the right one.
good luck.
2007-01-28 12:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Hulabaloola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the religeous nut. The smart one may have the best income potential. Never date a guy you couldn't see getting married too. Big red flag if your folks dislike him. You have a very short shelf life. You are having your little time too be desired by a lot of guys, but it will be over before you know it. So have fun and make the most of it.
2007-01-28 12:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by my_evil_twin_41 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Interesting questions you are discribing the guys features, looks like you want people to chose which features are the best. Just like "which cell phone should I chose, which one is the best"
Well, lets see whats going to happen. Let me know who you will chose lol. In your situation someone will get hurt.
Welcome to life. You have to decide, you are the only one who knows who you love. right? If you want other people to help you who to love, then 0.0 thats interesting, very interesting. That means you are looking for the best features. if you are looking for features and answers from the people here good luck for finding real love.
2007-01-28 13:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by mhshhaduw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that your 16 and probably wont be with th is guy forever
choose the one you have the most fun with.
2007-01-28 12:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by sc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALl those guys are 16 don't date any of them coz they'll be immature go for someone older, no matter what great things they do coz soon they'll all leave you for younger girls when youguys go out for two years or something..
2007-01-28 12:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're unsure, choose none. Advice based on your input would not be worth much. You're unsure for a good reason. Rely on that lack of certainty to guide you.
2007-01-28 12:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd go with the 3rd one as he is the only one you mentioned that you liked spending time with. The other two are obviously just pretty boys with no substance. The 3rd one at least you seem to enjoy his company
2007-01-28 12:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure that you favor one above the other. u shouldn't spend so much time thinking about dudes. but i would go with the one who is more apt to be faithful to you. in the end u are going to pick the one you favor the most so just think about it.
2007-01-28 12:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋