Last night I had people from my sports team over to hang out. I ended up walking one of the girls back to her dorm cause it was late out and I felt bad, she invited me to hang out for a little and I went with it cause she I had a good time hangin out with her that night there wasn't like any bad motive for me. Anyways we were talkin and stuff about the guys shes havin trouble with (she's a freshman) and then it was late so I told her I had to go. When I went to say goodbye she kissed me and I went with it. It only lasted a few seconds and then I stopped said bye and left. I have a girlfriend who goes to another school, we've been together for half a year and I love her. The girl who kissed me knew that too. What should I do? Should I tell my gf? Should I tell the other girl it shouldn't have happened (I'm gonna see her almost everyday at practice)
2007-01-28 04:22:27 · 6 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start doin both of them, the other one wont find out cause she is at another school, this one doesnt care so enjoy..
2007-01-28 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knew you had a girlfriend when she kissed you, then she's ignorant for it and that tells you something about her character. People show you who they are all the time. And it doesn't matter how much fun you have "hangin out" with a girl--if you have a girlfriend you NEVER put yourself in that predicament, just because she asks you in doesn't mean you have to go. She knew what she was doin. But its up to you to man-up and back out of that situation. Don't tell your girl, but do tell the girl who kissed you that you ain't wit it and let her know it won't happen again.
2007-01-28 04:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this is definitelly not cool. You should most definitely tell the girl you kissed that, that was not ok and you love your girlfriend, etc. As for telling your girlfriend, you should tell her and tell her it was a mistake, etc. You do run the risk of her getting pissed and dumping you, but also if she find out that would be horrible, and if your relationship lasts with this girl you're always going to have that in the back of your mind of something you've kept from her. My advice would be to be completely honest and hope for the best.
2007-01-28 04:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go up and talk to the "surprise kisser" girl and tell her about how you love your girlfriend very much and last night (the kiss) shouldn't have happened. Explain to her that you understand that she's having problem with her boyfriend and that if she needed to talk, you'd love to listen "as a friend".
Unless you actually have feelings for this other girl, I wouldn't tell your girlfriend about the kiss, because you didn't instigate it.
2007-01-28 04:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by C_C2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to decide which girl you are more interested in. after you have made that decision then you need to stick to it. if you tell your girlfriend expect her to lose some trust in you, which is normal and you should not be upset about. if you chose the other girl expect it to be a short term fling.
2007-01-28 04:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your gf will be happy to hear about it, just forget what had happened. Act as if nothing happen last night.
2007-01-28 04:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋