If a boy asks you out and you dont like him... how do you say no politely?

Answer 1

simple no's work maybe a i can't. But if he's someone you know not well though and you don't want to hurt their wittle feelings just say your a lez or your expirementing with multiple guys or girls right now...and if it's a friend then say something like i dont wanna ruin our friend ship or my friend really likes you but i can't tell you their name and i dont want them to hate you...Or tell them you have a penis that's a big turn off..at least to me

Answer 2

Here is a definition of the word "politely".
Marked by or showing consideration for others, tact, and observance of accepted social usage.
I think the key word here is CONSIDERATE. How would you want to be treated. DO NOT lie or make up a story. It will only come back to you and bite you in the butt.
Thank him for the offer, and let him know that you are not interested. If he keeps persisting. Tell him the truth. ALWAYS be true to yourself. BUT also, remember if the real reason you are not interested is based on physical apperance. You could be passing up a GREAT opportunity. Try not to be too shallow.

Answer 3

Hopefully he asks you out for a certain day so you can say you're busy that day. If he keeps asking and giving you a certain day you can always say you're busy and after awhile he'll get the hint.

If it doesn't work out that way you may have to tell him you like his as a friend but not as a boyfriend so you can't go out with him.

It's nice that you want to say no politely because it's hard to get the courage up to ask someone out. If they say no and are at least nice about it they won't feel too bad.

Answer 4

There are two things you want to avoid here. One is coming across meanly. Because that will upset you both and you will feel terrible. Secondly, you don't want to give a guy mixed messages. Mixed messages are for guys you have mixed feelings for.

I think the guy approaches and you can tell he's going to ask you out, or even if you can't and he does. I think you smile at him, engage him in conversation, make him feel good about himself, and then maybe put your hand on his shoulder to make him feel like he's worth something, and then say very clearly that you really appreciate the offer, its sweet of him to have thought of you in that way, but unfortunately you don't feel that way for him.

After all attraction is a mysterious thing. Maybe another girl would think hes a total "Baldwin". We can't feel something for everyone thats interested in us. I think honest but subtle gentle and kind. Make sure he walks away with a smile thinking - "what a lovely girl"

Answer 5

Ther is no polite way to say no to someone. So just state the reason. Dont take to long with getting it out Do it somewhere with a nice quiet surronding, so u wont draw heavy attention.

Answer 6

Well, I've been in our situation a multiple amount of times. Just say, I'm sorry not now . Or now's a bad time or, No, I'm sorry Be polite!!! and ladie-like!!

Answer 7

Tell him straight up. Don't say something like "if things were different" or "maybe some other time". Saying things like this will bait him, and keep him thinking. A straight up rejection is the nicest way to go.

Answer 8

There's no polite way, just load the truth with a lot of sympathy and sorries

Answer 9

to say no politely to him just look at him and say that you are not ready for a relationship and that if that time comes around that you may consider dating him in the future..but not right now..

Answer 10

Say Yes!
I mean think about it from a logical stand point. At the very least you get a free meal. Plus who knows, he might surprise you. The biggest lesson I have learned from life is people can surprise you if you give them the chance.