we have been dating for 3 months but we dont really see each other outside of school. i was thinking about breaking up with him in the begining of Feb, but he just invited me to a really big ceremony 4 him regarding a club he is in. should i wait until a couple days after his ceremony, or break up with him sooner like planed? its really big and important for him ,and i dont want to hurt his feelings.
2007-01-28 04:19:30 · 30 answers · asked by Kiery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he have dated for 3 months and gone to the movies ONCE! i go to all his wrestling matches, and have had him over to my house before...... but he never asks me to do anythin!
hes a sweet guy just not the one for me... so should i wait or break up now... also its really close to valentines day... do u think that will be devistating to him?
2007-01-28 04:33:23 · update #1
Well..i learned the hard way that if you stay with someone and you dont like them then it well just make things worse..so i think you should just be honset and tell him that you still care but you just dont see it going anywhere..theres all ways a posiblity that he feelis the same way and then you 2 can be friends
2007-01-28 04:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by myconfession 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Up With Him After The Ceremony So He Isn't Broken At The Ceremonie And He Has Nothing To Think About But You And How You Broke Up With Him.... That Is My Opinion
2007-01-28 04:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by ily♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe that I would treat others the same way in which I would wish to be treated. This fellow sounds as though he is a nice and very thoughtful person. So, unless you have a desire to be hateful, tell him that you want to break up with him AFTER this special affair. A few days or even a week later, will suit the telling of this concern, just fine. You may still keep him as a friend. No one ever can predict whom they will need in this life. I know that you want to do what is best for the two of you. Remember this, "If God be for us, who can be against us?" - Romans 8:31. Peace and God Bless.
2007-01-28 04:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him about how you're feeling and let him know that you want to see him outside of school. If he has excuses or doesn't want to, simply let him know it's time to move on because you have different expectations. He's showing you how he feels about more then likely the best way he can. He's not a mind reader and you're expecting him to know he's disappointing you without even telling him first. Give him a chance. You've been happy pretty much for these three months and you have forever ahead of you. Don't be quick to make decisions without communicating first to get his perspective.
2007-01-28 04:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up today! Give him a chance to find another date, or to get over the break up before his event. It would be worse if you went to his big ceremony and didnt want to be there. It is most likely a big deal to him and he invited you to share it with him because he likes you alot. If the feeling isnt mutual your just patronizing him and treating him like hes pathetic. Odds are he'll be over it pretty quickly and you will both be happier.
2007-01-28 04:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jackson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u should think twice about breaking up with him....is it because u dont see him outside of schooll....try talking to him about seeing each other after school and things like that......but if u still want to break up...then do it before the ceremony.
2007-01-28 04:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by banileja_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! Ditching your boyfriend right before Valentine's Day!! That's messed up. But hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. If I were you, I would let have his moment with his ceremony and then a couple days later drag him back down to Earth. Try to let him down easy though because it doesn't really sound like he has done anything wrong. Good luck with your dumping!
2007-01-28 04:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Vasago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, are you breaking up with him because of not seeing him thing... or because you really don't like him. If you're breaking up because you don't like him, do it now. It would be worse for him to have you wait on his behalf. He will always remember this event in his life and soon after having his girlfriend break up with him... so if its because of not seeing him then talk to him about it. See if you can come to an understanding and try to see each other more often.
2007-01-28 04:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him alone one time and tell him its over. Tell him that you have changed and you think that it would be betterif you are just friends. As for the ceremony if you want to go, then go becuase thats what friends are for- always being there for each other!
2007-01-28 04:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u could tell him that u think u guys should break-up but if he wants u could still go to the celabration thing with him (IF U WANT 2) but I wouldn't wait that long to break up with him because then ur just leading him on.and if u want 2 be he's friend instead then tell him that might soften the break-up a bit.
2007-01-28 04:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋