My friends all say I am whipped b/c I went to my g/f's conference meet and when she sprained her ankle I carried her to the trainer (not hard, she weighs like 100lbs max.) and then helped her walk to the podium to get her 2nd place medal
I was a player until I met her.
Does this all make me whipped?? Or just sincere??
My friends say that b/c she is a state champion gymnast I should be using her for se.x, but b/c I don't use her they call me whipped. Am I??
I have had se.x with her but that is not why I am with her. What's wrong with not having se.x the first night and leaving her??
2007-01-28 03:37:00 · 22 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I just use her like my friends say??
2007-01-28 03:42:09 · update #1
Yeh ur whipped =)
2007-01-28 03:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
What you did was the right and kind thing to do, and no this does not make you whipped. Your friends are not used to seeing you this way, they're a little jealous, and don't pay any attention to them. It sounds as though you're falling in love for the first time, and just laugh back at your friends. They'll soon be in relationships of their own, and that'll shut them up! Good luck.
2007-01-28 11:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are whipped and your close friends are saying you are whipped you are most likely whipped! HOWEVER, they may just be saying that because they are used to the old you. Take it from a guy who knows, I've got a lot of friend who ARE whipped and you are only so when you start doing things you don't like or usually wouldn't do just because she asking you to and you don't want to get her mad!
2007-01-28 11:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cesar F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a sensitive guy. helping out your girl when she needs you and not using her for sex have nothing to do with being "whipped". With the attitude they have it won't be long until all of the girls are onto them and they won't even have the opportunity to be whipped. Real men do not use women, they don't have to. They have confidence in themselves without having to hurt someone else to get it.
Kiddo, you have the right idea, it's your friends who are twisted. Keep the girl, loose the friends.
2007-01-28 12:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy just because you grew a heart and actually care doesn't mean you're whipped, face it some times our friends just can't understand that we want more in a relationship than just sex. If you're happy just carry on doing what makes you happy. Don't let your friends tell you that you're whipped, because you like a girl. don't let interfere in your relationship either, if you do you'll regret it at some point...
2007-01-28 11:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious that you are young and immature. Otherwise you would see that your friends are morons. A "player" is nothing but a stupid childish little boy who has yet to develop the mental capacity to know how to treat people. Wait about 10-15 years. You'll feel awful thinking back to how you were when you were young.
2007-01-28 11:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't listen to your friends, u sound like a very sincere, caring guy. Your a good guy and just because you care for her and wanna do things to help her doesn't mean your whipped. Tell your friends they should be more like you.
2007-01-28 11:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This proves that you actually care for this girl. Maybe your friends are just used to the "old you" who's a player. It's quite possible that you've actually found someone that you enjoy being with for long periods of time and have decent converstation and your friends are jealous. Good luck to you and don't let your friends ruin your relationship!
2007-01-28 11:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aric...c'mon here. Lets be real. This sounds like you love her. Of course when you love someone deeply you'll go out of your way for her. Isn't that what love is all about? So what is wrong with being in love? Its a lot better to be in love and do nice things for the person you care for than to live the meaningless lonely lifestyle your friends advocate for you.
2007-01-28 12:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by solitas777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friends are jerks and are too old to be acting like that. but i would say no you're not whipped you're just a good boyfriend and keep it up. probably if your friends were a little more mature they could get a girlfriend. and there's more to a relationship than "doing it" but good luck with your special lady.
2007-01-28 11:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friends are jelouse of what you have. At some point in your life you want to get seriouse. The same thing happened to my boyfriend. He was never a player but yes he liked to party and do all sorts of things with his guy friends and all that. But since meeting me he wants to settle down with me and my daughter. Life happens and it just happened sooner for you then with your friends. Their turn will come.
2007-01-28 11:41:54 · answer #11 · answered by angelic_rs_slayer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋