We started going out right after we both graduated college. That was 5 years ago. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out the single life of my late 20's.
Also, I know if I were single, I'd probably be having alot of adventures moving around internationally, but because of her job, we have to stay where we are.
Don't get me wrong. I really love her. I just think I'm too young to feel so old.
2007-01-28 03:32:18 · 17 answers · asked by johnnygyrate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you need to decide if you love her enough to "let your 20's go". Not saying she isnt worth it, but if you are having feelings of resentment towards her for stealing your youth then its not gonna get any better. Save her the grief down the road and end it now before you end up married with kids. If you do love her enough to miss out on the partying and casual sex with other women then get over it! Suck it up, quit remeniscing about "what you could have had" and move forward with your life with her!
2007-01-28 03:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by hvandyk82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are tough and I'm not sure of the dynamics of yours, but one thing I do know is first and foremost you are responsible for you.
She's not holding you back. You're making her the excuse.
If during this time you need or want to be single and experience life by going out or traveling it's a decision that you will need to come to grips. Do you want to include her? Can you come to a compromise? What's important to you?
Be honest with yourself and understand that the decisions you make were the best ones AT THE time you made them.
2007-01-28 04:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by keca96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you started and continued going with her exclusively quite willingly. Now, you've painted yourself into a corner that's not easy to get out of. You're going to have to make up your mind and make the tough decision........ stay with her.... or be the wild single guy and hope she's still around to take you back when your done... and that she's understanding enough to forgive you for hurting her.
2007-01-28 03:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i tihnk ur both too young for seriour commitment. Once you're married its too late. Divorce is very U G L Y! Have fun NOW while u can sweetie. If she really loves u, she will still be there in a year or whenever u r ready.
2007-01-28 03:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by NYEVE43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're living a wrong lifestyle, if I understand you properly. Here you are after 5 years, not even married to her, you're probably living with her and your life revolves around her, instead of any principles. You don't appear to have a clue and seem to be a terribly weak man.
Why would you be "missing out on a single life" if you are in fact single? It doesn't make sense.
How can you be wasting so many years, of your own and of hers? I would certainly want to get her away from you if she was my daughter.
2007-01-28 03:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're wanting to convince yourself that SHE'S holding you back. But you can't see the idea of being alone. It's obvious to the untrained Eye, that you wanna break away. Take a temporay time away. Allow both of you to see how you feel. It'll show both just where you stand. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 03:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are missing out, you should sit down and talk to her. You are together for five years and still not married? Are you just looking for a way out. What about using her vacation time for traveling.
2007-01-28 03:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lorayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hei... talk to her.
But be wise, ok...
You dont want her to misunderstand you?? Think how you will start your confersation!!
Make sure that she is mature enough to undertand your heart!
and may be you will find out that she feels the same!!
Or if you cant talk to her, afraid that she might blow up... write a letter... so that you can express all your feeling completely without her disturbing your talking.
and again... make sure that you write "I love you completely beyond anything"
So, be wise.....in your talking...
Make sure you consider first her character, her maturity, and her love to you....
and you make a plan how to pour out your heart....
either starting it with a romantic dinner
or make a letter (if she is a type of a person who couldnt hear bad news) and give it to her...and leave her. let her think, so that she can read and think about it before reaching the telephone and blow up (may be...)
Remember.. the wise can make a peace but a fool start a war!!
Gd luck!
2007-01-28 03:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by citra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man just tell her to have a break on her and tell her that its time that the two of you needs to spend a quiet and quality time together.. because all work and no fun can ruin any realtionship..
So just ask her nicely prepare a candlelight dinner for the two of you then slowly tell her your plans
And dude ask her to marry you i think its time for the two of you to settle down coz youve been together for a long time now
2007-01-28 04:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by CarZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 03:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋