well i really like this guy, and he is all i think about. Ive tried to just forget about him but, i can't.
and theres a couple problems...
1)he has a girl friend
2)he my brothers best friend)
3)He drinks, and i cant stand people who do it.
when i talk to him and tell him that i am going to his wrestling matches he always like oh really nice, i like it when you go and stuff like that. And I cant tell if he flirts with me. once his girlfriend is around he acts very deifferent, like he wants to still talk to me, but he dosent want to get in trouble...!??!?
2007-01-28 03:30:45 · 11 answers · asked by Shmashbro [FRICK] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he totally digs you! see if you can stop his drinking or at least lessen it. if you get the butterflies, you definately have a crush and you like him. and if you end up hooking up, tell him how you feel about drinking or start drinking with him! =o)
2007-01-28 03:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by bballgussy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We girls always fall in love with the wrong guy. It is no healthy relationship if you come between him n his girlfriend. You certainly dont want to be engaged as in a fifth wheel. Importanly, if he is interested in you, he would dump his gf or lose interest in his gf or some other act that implies he is interested. But from the way it seems, he is playing you and flirting with you to pass by time. If he has a gf and flirts with u, what kind of lover do you think he is? What if u really get to be his gf would u like that he would flirt wif some other chick behind your back? Drinking is a problem for it can turn to abuse. Be careful. Dont give in. You are just better off without him. Keep your "sanity" for another guy who treat u wif dignity and respect and love. Hold on to it. There are better fishes in the sea.
2007-01-28 12:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let some innocent flirting turn into something more while he has a gf. Hang out with him to figure out if he likes you. Other than that, since he's your bro's friend, do you feel that he's a good guy? If he's a nice person, wait and see how things go.
2007-01-28 11:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some Pride in yourself. You're wanting to live in a rut. Look to be around people that act like you do. This Clown, sure ain't in that neighborhood. Live to Love happy! It can work. Without having him around.
2007-01-28 11:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want him to be the father of your children?? he will just get drunk when you ask him to help you in the night, changing diaper and feed your baby!!
Gosh!!!
think about your future, girl!!!!
dont only think about now!!
there are many men that act and have habit like a gentleman!!!
who is not double faces (you told us that!)
who doesnt drink (later, if you have problem, he will just get drunk and swear you, and leave you with divorce paper....)
who is mature enough to control himself and think straight!!
can you know somebody who usually drink and can think straight???
you know, those who drink sometimes just a person who follow the crowd, run away from problms, and not ready to face the world!!
what can you expect from a person who make a habit out of drink???
you can ruin yourself you know!!
be wise!!
think before you leap!!
2007-01-28 12:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by citra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes your definatley! Great! But do not try to steal him. Take a deep breath and let him call the shots if he likes you enough he will come around.
2007-01-28 11:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like trouble from all aspects.. of course he likes you, you are also his best friends sister.. it is not worth it and please dont hang on to every nice word he tells especially that he changes when his gf is around..
2007-01-28 11:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wait until him and his girlfriend breake up, and since u dont like his drinking peoblem maybe u could help him.
2007-01-28 11:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by pretty girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a but forget it as it will not work as you have already made up your mind,
2007-01-28 11:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for him to break up with his girlfriend;
start getting to know him better and then confront him about his drinking..
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2007-01-28 11:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by jpstar30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋