We both going out for more than 3 years and love each other a lot! We wanted to get married. But recently according to some situations we both are kinda busy and we meet up once in a week or so! But i'm just bothered about having not enough time to go out or talk...i keep thinking about him! It's like i'm addicted to him! When i get up i talk to him on the phone, when i eat i talk, when i go to sleep i talk, when i go out/on the bus i talk...always talk talk talk and i feel he kinda getting upset & annoyed i know i shouldn't do that! i should give him a own space! So, what are the things i could do beside always thinking of him and bothering him? I mean we both have a lot of things to do! But it's just hard to stay without talking to him every hr or so! Did it ever happen to u guys! I used to think what lovers talk always, they always find something to and they talk day & night! After i fell in love, i realized it doesn't matter what we talk, we just like to hear each others voice!
2007-01-28
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Keep a picture of him with you. And whenever you want to talk to him, just look at that instead... make up a conversation in your head, if you must.
2007-01-28 03:29:12
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answered by dbybell 2
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Well a few ideas... hang out with friends... start working on something... or do what I do, come here and answer questions or say "yes ill come into work on my dayoff"... wow im pathetic... You could also move in together... you'll have all the time to talk with him at home until you run out of things to talk about, or until you get bored of him... Whatever you do, you need to stop calling so much, it will really start damaging your relationship if he gets annoyed (experience... lost a really good friend like that, now she hates me).
2007-01-28 11:42:51
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answered by Anonymous 3
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cool it girl, you cannot keep doing that to him or to yourself, it is not healthy and it will definitely push him away and put you really down. What you can do, is get distracted by the followin suggestions, of course you can come up with your own:
1. whenever you need to call him, call another friend whom you agree with to do so
2. Occupy yourself with a book
3. Enrol in a club
4. Exercise
5. tell yourself i will only call him after lunch for example
6. think that if you keep doing that you are going to loose him
7. put yourself in his shoes and imagine what it would be like to have someone call you all the time..
Just give him room to miss you, to want to know what is going on in your life. men like mysteries and they like to be ignored.. once you do that, you will see how the wheels will turn :)
2007-01-28 11:34:23
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answered by gone 7
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To me , it sounds like you're in love with him more than he's in love with you...If you call him constantly,you're not giving him a chance to miss you...Give him time to wounder what you're doing during the day...If you smother him with obsessive love,he will fall out of love with you and resent you...Call after work only, never during working hours and no more than 3 times a week....Do this for a few weeks and see if he calls you...Good Luck.
2007-01-28 11:45:37
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answered by oohJOHNNY 2
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Stop calling him so much. If you're both so busy, how can you call him every hour? Just because you're free at the moment, doesn't mean he is. Give him room to breathe before you push him away.
2007-01-28 11:31:06
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answered by mamabear 6
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ok i have this same problem but what took my mind off my ex boyfriend was i would just go shopping and hang out with my friends. ok you need to just stop calling him 24/7 let him call you.if he loves you he will call you.ok just ignore him for awhile cause guys hate to be ignored and he will wonder whats wrong and he will realize if he doesnt move fast he could lose you forever.
2007-01-28 11:32:35
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answered by emochick 2
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go to the gym and work out! Then once u get super sexy u will be thinking about a lot of other guys as well. ha.
2007-01-28 11:32:08
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answered by NYEVE43 2
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Hang out w/friends or think about something besidehim. Think about something that ur looking forward to or something that u see urself doing in life that'll be succesful.
2007-01-28 11:30:14
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answered by caring black guy 4
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drink it out of you
2007-01-28 11:29:13
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answered by sup 5
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